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Dating teacher's son - Yes? No? :S

Basically, I met a lovely boy at a party a few weeks ago. We got on really well, exchanged numbers and a few kisses :smile:

I met up with him last week and found out that he is my maths teacher's son! I didn't really mention school or anything when we first met, just that I was in 6th form. When we had a chance to have a proper chat, he told me that his mum worked at my school, teaching maths.
His mum has been my teacher since Year 7 and I'm now in Year 12. We get on really well - she's a brilliant teacher and a good 'friend' :smile:

Thing is, I'm not sure whether it would be be 'weird' between us, if I were to date her son :s-smilie:

I'd be round her house quite a lot and so will obviously see her out of school quite often, which would probably unintentially change our 'relationship' (can't think of a better word).
He's asked me out again and has said that he'd really like us to be more than friends - should I go for it? I like him a lot and I know I shouldn't let the fact that his mum is my teacher affect any relationship we have, but in reality do you think it would just feel too weird?

I know it's a bit of a pointless thread, and I'm just rambling now but, yeah, your thoughts? :smile:

Reply 1

Pawsies

15

Do it, you'll regret it if you don't and if it does feel a bit weird, you could always either get used to it or say so to him.

Think of it in his eyes, he probably finds it hard to get girls interested if they know his mum =)

Reply 2

!Borek

Yea! That's not a good enough reason not to!

Reply 3

carcinoma

17

Go for it!

Its a no brainer, YES!

Reply 4

josh_a_y

2

Stay away from him!!

Reply 5

moregano

18

My friend (male) dated my geography teacher's son, and a whole bunch of people decided to tell him (the teacher) in class. Turns out he didn't know his son was that way inclined. Awkward...

Reply 6

deathtoalevel

if you break his heart.
dont expect A* on your coursework form her :wink:

:P
jokin

Reply 7

Sequin

11

It would be too weird for me.

Reply 8

Laurah5498

18

Go for it

Reply 9

Ayla Phoenix

11

Sounds like being friends with her would actually be a bonus in this situation.
In manner of nike, just do it :smile:

Reply 10

-XxX-

1

yeah definately go for it

Reply 11

Bezzler

1

moregano

My friend (male) dated my geography teacher's son, and a whole bunch of people decided to tell him (the teacher) in class. Turns out he didn't know his son was that way inclined. Awkward...

Oh my god that's awful! Poor guy (the son)!

In response to the OP: I'd say go for it. If she's a nice teacher who's already almost a "friend" then I don't really see that there's a huge problem. Obviously if she was the sort of teacher who'd decide to fail you if the relationship didn't work out then it might be a difficult issue, but if she's understanding and friendly then there's no real reason not to.

Reply 12

_lauren

go for it : )

Reply 13

Kalliope

17

hell yeah!!! no brainer - you like the guy and maybe the teacher will give u higher marks if you make her son happy (joke!) :smile:

Reply 14

mollymustard

14

This happened to my friend - he started dating his English teacher's (female) daughter. I think it was odd for him at first, being round there when her mum was there but they soon all got over it.
I think you should just go for it, if you don't you'll just have so many 'what ifs' going through your head. You like him, you obviously have a connection and you shouldn't let your teacher get in the way of that. I'm sure at your age you have the maturity to be able to keep you personal life and school pupil life seperate.

Reply 15

jammythedodger

12

Anonymous

Basically, I met a lovely boy at a party a few weeks ago. We got on really well, exchanged numbers and a few kisses :smile:

I met up with him last week and found out that he is my maths teacher's son! I didn't really mention school or anything when we first met, just that I was in 6th form. When we had a chance to have a proper chat, he told me that his mum worked at my school, teaching maths.
His mum has been my teacher since Year 7 and I'm now in Year 12. We get on really well - she's a brilliant teacher and a good 'friend' :smile:

Thing is, I'm not sure whether it would be be 'weird' between us, if I were to date her son :s-smilie:

I'd be round her house quite a lot and so will obviously see her out of school quite often, which would probably unintentially change our 'relationship' (can't think of a better word).
He's asked me out again and has said that he'd really like us to be more than friends - should I go for it? I like him a lot and I know I shouldn't let the fact that his mum is my teacher affect any relationship we have, but in reality do you think it would just feel too weird?

I know it's a bit of a pointless thread, and I'm just rambling now but, yeah, your thoughts? :smile:

It's not weird at all.
Especially in my school where like 3 people in my year are children of teachers... and like most of the teachers send their children to the school.
So we're all round the houses of teachers like all the time, and know them out of school.

And I know plenty of people who are students at school and have gone out with teacher's children. Its all cool.

So yes... do it!

Reply 16

Poppy1992

11

Go for it! (If you haven't already done so!)
My best friend is dating our Chemistry teacher's son & there's no 'awkwardness' between them at all :smile:

It might feel a bit weird at first but I'm sure, once you get over that initial feeling, it won't bother you at all :smile:

From what you've said, she sounds like a lovely person & will probably be very happy for you both :smile:

Good luck! x

Reply 17

lekky

19

moregano

My friend (male) dated my geography teacher's son, and a whole bunch of people decided to tell him (the teacher) in class. Turns out he didn't know his son was that way inclined. Awkward...

Hahahaha! Oh dear
If that's true, it's disasterously brilliant

Reply 18

moregano

18

lekky

Hahahaha! Oh dear
If that's true, it's disasterously brilliant

Sadly, yes it's true. It was funny at the time, and then very, very awkward... The same teacher's son also won Raven on CBBC when he was younger which is pretty cool, just thought I'd throw that in there lol.

Reply 19

lekky

19

moregano

Sadly, yes it's true. It was funny at the time, and then very, very awkward... The same teacher's son also won Raven on CBBC when he was younger which is pretty cool, just thought I'd throw that in there lol.

Awesome random fact!
I can remember watching that show but never like the full thing
Does someone always win or do they always get shoved off that path thing?

Dating teacher's son - Yes? No? :S

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