Too shy, sensitive to criticism, tendency to sulk and be jealous, and sometimes be too honest and straightforward with my friends which makes them feel awkward.
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- 08-09-2005 10:23
- 08-09-2005 11:35
Too opinionated I should learn to keep me gob shut!
- 08-09-2005 16:40
get angry easily and tend to yell and be very hurtful... (then when i've calmed down fell very very bad and shameful), sarcastic.... impatient and maybe a bit critical and judgemental
(lol don't sound like a very nice person!!)
- 08-09-2005 16:59
oh let me think...
-I think that i am the best, no matter if anyone gets better than me i still think i'm better than them.
-Have to argue my point till the end.
-Extremely lazy (i have gone without eating for days simply becuase my parents have not been home to make me food - even microwave food.)
-Too flirty (ends up hurting people)
-I can't commit. I will like a guy for ages and then things start getting to serious and i run. thats why i've never been out with a guy, i can't stand the thought of being anyones girlfriend.
-Too friendly - I think i intimidate people.
-Very self critical.
theres more than that but i don't want everyone to hate me.
(Original post by trixx)
- 08-09-2005 18:12
Ok, here it goes. I'm a neurotic person and very shy. I don't think being shy is a negative trait but when i meet people for the first time they sometimes feel i'm being rude.
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- 08-09-2005 18:31
Wow, someone plucked this from the doldrums lol.
Think mine have personally changed from when I started this thread.
Now I'd say I am too deceitful, not honest enough and a bit of a coward when it comes to love lol.
- 10-09-2005 12:47
My worst personality trait is probably the fact that i'm very antisocial. i would never have ended up best mates with my best mate if she hadn't persistently got in touch, tried to get me to come out etc.
i have a hard time trusting female friends 'cos i've been hurt before. when i was the first one in our little group to get a serious boyfriend they just dumped me off, claiming i was neglecting them (i wasn't). then later they wanted me back but i just couldn't be friends with them anymore. oh and i'm too proud and stubborn.
- 10-09-2005 13:06
Well, I think I can sometimes be a bit high-and-mighty, normally when it comes to computers, rather than other subjects. Also, although I don't get stressed easily, when I do get stressed I can really go over the top. And, I do get a bit paranoid about what people think of me sometimes. I always try and be the best friend I possibly can be, but sometimes when I do something which might be considered unfriendly or whatever, I worry about it a lot. I don't worry about this too much, but I do have moments of extreme self-conciousness. I suppose for me you could say with a few things, when it rains, it pours.
EDIT: Also at times I can be a little uptight, but that was mainly last year. During the summer I loosened up a bit, I think I'm back to my old self, but it doesn't mean I don't know when to be sensible.
- 10-09-2005 13:12
Ok, well I don't entirely know about negative, but i'll put down some of my traits that aren't always useful as such
- 10-09-2005 13:14
I take some jokes toooo seriously, I can be incredibly rude to people if i dont want to talk to them - i.e just turn away from them or completly ignore them... have to learn to not be and ummm i always think im right if im not especially in arguements with my parents
- 10-09-2005 13:30
Oh Dear, I'm moody, extremely jealous, can be too loud or sometimes too shy, I laugh at my own jokes too often, can sulk for Britain, be very dark at times, laugh too much at other times, I am way too opinionated & will argue for hours if needs be, I am fiercely independent and can take feminism to the extreme. Oh I also have a tendency to put my foot in it.
My good points (have to put some in) are I am quite a good listener, can sort other peoples problems out (just not my own) and I can be jolly good fun when I choose to be.
(Original post by Melanie400)
- 10-09-2005 13:34
I laugh at my own jokes too often
- 10-09-2005 15:52
i take things too seriously(occassionally),too trusting,lazy,afraid of responsibility,too caught up in my own little world...
- 10-09-2005 15:57
Sometimes I come across as quite cold and aloof but it just takes me time to warm to other people.
- 10-09-2005 15:58
I'm told that I'm
I talk too much,
I pull out of things at the last minute,
I get very drunk meaning tha people have to look after me,
and I always tell people what I think, so probably TOO honest.
PS I'm also a compulsive liar, and a good one at that. I'm stubborn and spoilt too.
- 10-09-2005 16:10
i'm too stubbon.
i hate admitting i am wrong.
i always want my own way.
- 10-09-2005 16:19
Always changing my mind, contradicting myself, sticking my foot in it constantly, slightly cynical, hating to apologise/admit I'm wrong, bottling up my feelings, trying to impose my views on other people, *****ing far too often, judging people I don't even know, acting one way when I feel another, constant complaining...
I have some good points aswell though
- 10-09-2005 16:21
Two more to add. I can't take criticism even though I give a hell of a lot out, and I am far too paranoid for my own good.
- 10-09-2005 19:31
I'm a bit of a control freak and I can be clingy too.
- 10-09-2005 19:46
arrogance - also i can;t let things go if i beleive that i'm right - even in petty little arguments