Boyfriend - latex fetish?

The other day I was on my boyfriends laptop and the search bar dropped down with a list of his previous searches.

There was some porn on it, all the standard guy stuff guys like to watch (lesbians, lots of girls on one guy, dildo sucking est. est.) but there was also quite a few searches for stuff like 'girls in latex, girls with latex fetish, girls with balloon fetish.....)

I don't care about him watching porn. We're long distance and I'd much rather he watches porn than get frustrated and go after the real thing or something! but I'm abit worried about the whole latex thing.

Is it like a secret fantasy of his :s I don't think I'd be all that comfortable dressing up in latex for him as I'd feel abit slutty and cheap. I dress up for him sometimes in nice bits and pieces like suspenders and stuff but never latex..... I'm worried that I'm never going to quite measure up now to what he really wants and I'm also worried that his searches are just abit....weird.

How common is this? Do you like this kind of thing guys/girls do your boyfriends search similar......

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Reply 1

HearTheThunder

It's not that common but it's not disturbing, does it matter?

Reply 2

death.drop

I think you ease in to things.
I found out that my partner is really in to domination and anal play and it was quite...unsettling at first because that's just so not me. I'm very shy, I like to take an active role but I also like being extremely submissive.
I tried anyway and over time I've got much more comfortable with it. I mean, I may not be able to get through a night of domination and torture without bursting in to uncontrollable laughter, but squeezing his nipples and crushing his balls are second nature to me now, and I've never been quite comfortable with strap ons but I'm working on my arm strength so I can pound him up the arse for longer.

If it's something you really really don't see yourself being able to do then I'd suggest talking to him about how important it is to him.

Reply 3

ozzyoscy

WTF? You're asking about ordinary stuff like latex while quickly disregarding that he WATCHES BALLOON PORN?! :lolwut:

Reply 4

Zap Brannigan

What is balloon porn?

Reply 5

ozzyoscy

Zap Brannigan

What is balloon porn?

Guys with a balloon fetish get turned on by girls blowing up balloons and squeaking them. Also they'll get turned on by getting inside a balloon.

That's all I know. There's a YouTube video of a guy's constant attempts at getting inside a huge balloon, then he is successful. It's hilarious and is probably quite typical. :lol:

Reply 6

Reue

death.drop

I may not be able to get through a night of domination and torture without bursting in to uncontrollable laughter, but squeezing his nipples and crushing his balls are second nature to me now, and I've never been quite comfortable with strap ons but I'm working on my arm strength so I can pound him up the arse for longer.

Legendary :P

Reply 7

Dionysus

Everyone has some sort of fetish. This is not a particularly weird one, even though it may be relatively unusual.

Reply 8

sellierose

This is probably something your boyfriend is quite sensitive about. However, I would reccommend talking to him about it, by asking him what he would like to introduce to the bedroom when you are next together, if he had the choice. If he mentions latex then offer to try something small first, don't plunge into it headfirst! I know you're worried about trying it out, but think how appreciative he would be that you understand. You can really choose a fetish, or get rid of it, so embrace the fact that he finds you sexy and use it to your advantage girl! Remember, there are many worse fetishes out there :smile:

and you never know, you may find out you like it too!

Reply 9

ozzyoscy

Dionysus

This is not a particularly weird one

I presume you mean the latex and not the balloon fetish. :lolwut:

Reply 10

Dionysus

ozzyoscy

I presume you mean the latex and not the balloon fetish. :lolwut:

haha yeah but at least it doesn't involve unpleasant bodily excretions or anything.

Reply 11

Richiboi

give the man a high five from me. :biggrin:

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

The balloon thing is weird yeah, I didn't focus on that 'cause he'd done like two searches on it and from the wording it seemed more like one of those curiosity things if you get me? Not a 'wow this is turning me on I'm going to search that loads'.

I really think he'd be so embarrassed if I tried to talk to him about it because I don't want him to think I snoop around his laptop or that I think he's weird. He hates the subject of him watching porn, knowing him, because he feels guilty and dirty.
I'd still love him even if he was into all that balloon stuff. I don't think what people watch in porn is a true reflection of what they actually want in the bedroom, the reality could be quite different. I just hope I'm still enough for him that's all and that he's not going to get bored of me after watching all this kinky stuff...

Reply 13

ozzyoscy

Anonymous

I'd still love him even if he was into all that balloon stuff. I don't think what people watch in porn is a true reflection of what they actually want in the bedroom

On the contrary, anything particular a guy likes to see in porn he will be in dreamland if it actually happens to him in real life.

If he did like balloon porn, he splurge a gallon if, just before sex, you suddenly got a balloon out and started blowing it up.

And I can't believe I just wrote that. :colonhash:

I just hope I'm still enough for him that's all and that he's not going to get bored of me after watching all this kinky stuff...

Porn is never a substitute for a girlfriend. There is no emotional connection to porn.

Besides, even if we did fall in love with porn actresses, it'd be hard to track them down, shag them or get them to go out with us, whilst not having a problem with some other guy cumming in her mouth a few times for a video shoot.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

death.drop

Well, I'm sure your boyfriend is gonna be happy you posted his deepest fetishes, especially since there is a picture on your profile.. lol

Reply 15

death.drop

Anonymous

Well, I'm sure your boyfriend is gonna be happy you posted his deepest fetishes, especially since there is a picture on your profile.. lol

nowt to be ashamed of, and all our friends know already. :dontknow:

Reply 16

BellaMemoria

I'd be so tempted to blow up a balloon and have it in the corner of the room next time he comes round, just to see if there'd be any reaction to it, like looking at it alot during sex or if he'd actually do something with it..

Reply 17

Anonymous #3

Absolutely nothing wrong with a latex fetish, and I don't think the OP should have any worries about dressing up for him. :wink:

Reply 18

flugestuge

death.drop

nowt to be ashamed of, and all our friends know already. :dontknow:

And now so do your enemies and a large number of strangers who really didnt want to know...

Reply 19

death.drop

flugestuge

And now so do your enemies and a large number of strangers who really didnt want to know...

I don't have any enemies, and the strangers are on a thread about fetishes on the internet, I'm sure they're so easily offended they wouldn't be here.
I really don't get why it matters.