Boyfriend - latex fetish?

Reply 20

16

Everyone has fetishes there is nothing wrong with it. Its because of social norms and people saying their weird that they hide it. Just accept it. If he doesn't ask you to do anything then don't worry about it. if he does then talk to him about it. On another note, why would you feel cheap and slutty? Your in a relationship with him and you'd be making him happy, why is that cheap and slutty?

Reply 21

m45

3

oh no! that sucks, if only he was one of the normal ones watching dildo sucking :s-smilie:

Reply 22

ozzyoscy

21

m45

oh no! that sucks, if only he was one of the normal ones watching dildo sucking :s-smilie:

Are you seriously suggesting it's irregular for a guy to look at videos of blow jobs, simulated or otherwise?

Reply 23

Anonymous #1

OP

ozzyoscy

Are you seriously suggesting it's irregular for a guy to look at videos of blow jobs, simulated or otherwise?

Agreed, that's a pretty standard thing for guys to look at. He's ew about looking at another guys penis > likes blowjobs though = girl sucking dildo is a turn on. My other guy mates have discussed this in front of me haha.

Like sum1 else said, I am tempted to 'find' a balloon in my bag after a party from ages ago....blow it up for fun and see if there's a reaction. If there isn't any reaction I don't think I'll mention it.

I've also bought some hold-ups with a pvc top to them, they dont look too ott or strange so I'll see if I get any sort of reaction to them.

Wish me luck

Reply 24

death.drop

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Anonymous

Like sum1 else said, I am tempted to 'find' a balloon in my bag after a party from ages ago....blow it up for fun and see if there's a reaction. If there isn't any reaction I don't think I'll mention it.

I've also bought some hold-ups with a pvc top to them, they dont look too ott or strange so I'll see if I get any sort of reaction to them.

Wish me luck

Just wanted to cheer you on, good on you for having a go!

Reply 25

ozzyoscy

21

I think you'll get a very explosive reaction.

Reply 26

Jeff1370

Hi
Do not have reservations about rubber it is their from an early age with some people.

If you go with it in small dressing up items and build it up to what you feel happy with that's ok.

Rubber is a trigger I allows you to escape into sexual fantasy , and this will lead to better sex for both of you, the rubber is no diffrent to silk or cotton is just a diffrent fabric not a thing to fear or feel ashamed to wear.

Reply 27

Talon5Karrde

1

Lets start from the top.

I am assuming you mean latex/rubber clothing and not PVC or wet-look clothing.

It is very healthy that you are okay with his watching porn.
While you are with girl/girl and girl/dildo. You have a problem with girl/girl and girl/dildo, if the girls are wearing latex?
What?
Why are you worried about him wanting one porn to become real but not another?
Are you okay with putting on a sex show with your own dildo?
What about lesbian sex with a friend while he watches in person? What about the threesome afterwards? (It would help if you and your female friend are both bisexual, for the threesome...)
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However, you have a problem because he might really want you to wear latex clothing because you would look, and hopefully feel amazing?
Some misconceptions.
You said latex clothing = cheap and slutty.
Good latex clothing has never been cheap.
Is latex clothing:
Kinky - Yes
A Fetish for people - Yes
Slutty - perhaps
Cheap - No way

Have you looked at any of those

Reply 28

Karine_94

1

Original post

by Anonymous #1

The other day I was on my boyfriends laptop and the search bar dropped down with a list of his previous searches.

There was some porn on it, all the standard guy stuff guys like to watch (lesbians, lots of girls on one guy, dildo sucking est. est.) but there was also quite a few searches for stuff like 'girls in latex, girls with latex fetish, girls with balloon fetish.....)

I don't care about him watching porn. We're long distance and I'd much rather he watches porn than get frustrated and go after the real thing or something! but I'm abit worried about the whole latex thing.

Is it like a secret fantasy of his :s I don't think I'd be all that comfortable dressing up in latex for him as I'd feel abit slutty and cheap. I dress up for him sometimes in nice bits and pieces like suspenders and stuff but never latex..... I'm worried that I'm never going to quite measure up now to what he really wants and I'm also worried that his searches are just abit....weird.

How common is this? Do you like this kind of thing guys/girls do your boyfriends search similar......

Look, if there is a place in your relationship for something new that can beautify or diversify your life, then you can try to wear something incendiary that your partner likes.
Latex is an unusual and sexy material that you get excited about. So it doesn't matter what material your provocative clothes are made of.

Reply 29

edshyrest

Original post

by Anonymous #1

The other day I was on my boyfriends laptop and the search bar dropped down with a list of his previous searches.

There was some porn on it, all the standard guy stuff guys like to watch (lesbians, lots of girls on one guy, dildo sucking est. est.) but there was also quite a few searches for stuff like 'girls in latex, girls with latex fetish, girls with balloon fetish.....)

I don't care about him watching porn. We're long distance and I'd much rather he watches porn than get frustrated and go after the real thing or something! but I'm abit worried about the whole latex thing.

Is it like a secret fantasy of his :s I don't think I'd be all that comfortable dressing up in latex for him as I'd feel abit slutty and cheap. I dress up for him sometimes in nice bits and pieces like suspenders and stuff but never latex..... I'm worried that I'm never going to quite measure up now to what he really wants and I'm also worried that his searches are just abit....weird.

How common is this? Do you like this kind of thing guys/girls do your boyfriends search similar......

It's not uncommon for people to have various interests in pornography that don't necessarily reflect their expectations or desires in real-life relationships. The presence of searches like 'girls in latex' or 'balloon fetish' could simply be curiosity or a fantasy and doesn't necessarily mean he expects or wants these things in your relationship.
[start]Regarding comfort in the relationship, it's important to communicate with your boyfriend about your feelings and boundaries. Discussing each other's likes, dislikes, and limits can enhance understanding and comfort levels. Remember, every relationship has its own dynamics, and what works for one couple might not for another. It's more about finding what you both are comfortable with.[/start]
[start]Also, it's important to keep in mind that people's online searches for adult content can be exploratory and don't always define their core sexual preferences or expectations from their partner.[/start]

Reply 30

Anonymous #4

Original post

by Talon5Karrde

Lets start from the top.
I am assuming you mean latex/rubber clothing and not PVC or wet-look clothing.
It is very healthy that you are okay with his watching porn.
While you are with girl/girl and girl/dildo. You have a problem with girl/girl and girl/dildo, if the girls are wearing latex?
What?
Why are you worried about him wanting one porn to become real but not another?
Are you okay with putting on a sex show with your own dildo?
What about lesbian sex with a friend while he watches in person? What about the threesome afterwards? (It would help if you and your female friend are both bisexual, for the threesome...)
-------------
However, you have a problem because he might really want you to wear latex clothing because you would look, and hopefully feel amazing?
Some misconceptions.
You said latex clothing = cheap and slutty.
Good latex clothing has never been cheap.
Is latex clothing:
Kinky - Yes
A Fetish for people - Yes
Slutty - perhaps
Cheap - No way
Have you looked at any of those

Latex;
Hard to get into - yes
lube needed-yes
slightly creepy-perhaps
gimp suit-doesnt have to be

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