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Should I give up

So theres a guy I met, weve been chatting on msn and texting. At first he would initiate it as well, and online he still does, but with texting, I'm always the first one to text him. Now a while back I thought I'd leave it a bit to see if that would make him text me, but it didnt so silly me I ended up texting him, and he realised that I'd left it a while, but still hadn't done anything about it. Now would this suggest hes not interested? When we are texting he seems very chatty and stuff, but after a while the convo just stops dead. Argh, I really shouldnt be thinking about this as much as I am, help please?:smile:

Reply 1

Leave it, he seems a doosh :smile:

Reply 2

Just leave it... move on and find someone else.

Reply 3

I'd say move on.

Reply 4

Yeah, guys hate to come across needy.

Reply 5

I do that with txting but it doesn't mean anything. Sometimes I just don't have credit or I'm busy and forget to txt back or whatever - I wouldn't read into it. I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it :smile:

Reply 6

I think you should text him, keep on trying it..and then when he doesnt reply, like forever?..then you'll be on here again...or, you coullld..forget him because I think he sees you more as a buddy than anything that could happen

:biggrin:

Reply 7

Well now I'm just more confused than ever :tongue:

Reply 8

No, better if u dont text him, i mean a nice "hello, what r u doing" is normal time to time..but guys can get quickly bored when girls pull on the damn "button" all the time...so just be friendly, and wait if smth happens..if no...just forget abt it :smile:

Reply 9


Never give up! Trust your instincts!