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    my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
    is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

    anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
    is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

    anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
    is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

    anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///
    No they don't
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
    is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

    anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///
    He's not exactly unfaithful, but I can easily understand why you're upset.
    If he still does it when you told him not to then he's betraying you.
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    my boyfriend is unfaithful to me,he always go to the sex related website and downloads many naked girl's picture ,at the beginning,I told him no,he said ok,but I still find him collecting these pictures,and I am so disappoited and he said every man does that.
    is that right,I hate him and I do not want to have sex with him anymore.

    anyone,please help me,tell me what I should do///
    Why does it upset you so much? if you are both secure in your relationship, naked pictures wouldnt make any difference, providing you love and trust each other, you have the basics for a great relationship, although it is about give and take and if you are unhappy with the situation, your partner should show some respect for your feelings also
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    (Original post by DevilsDoor)
    Why does it upset you so much? if you are both secure in your relationship, naked pictures wouldnt make any difference, providing you love and trust each other, you have the basics for a great relationship, although it is about give and take and if you are unhappy with the situation, your partner should show some respect for your feelings also
    yes,you are right.,that is why he lies to me...I can not believe why he interested in these,and he is a good bf in all way expect this.........I hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Men are naturally a bit pervy like that but we dont all look at porn - or at least I dont. Every man might instinctively want to but I think most people have the self control not to bother. Afterall its a bit sad I think.
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    No not all men do that. I think it does show infidelity on his part and the fact that he's not content with the relationship. Anyway, I imagine you're better than him anyway, so you've got nothing to worry about.
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    (Original post by theone)
    No not all men do that. I think it does show infidelity on his part and the fact that he's not content with the relationship. Anyway, I imagine you're better than him anyway, so you've got nothing to worry about.

    yes,he is not handsome and my friends ask me to leave him as I am better than him,but I do not ,because we have been together for 3 years,and he is a good guy in all the other aspects.I feel sorry if I leave him for this reason,could anyone tell me what I should do to help him out of that.....
    he said he is just collecting ,nothing else///

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    I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
    I will not call him,am I wrong???
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    yes,he is not handsome and my friends ask me to leave him as I am better than him,but I do not ,because we have been together for 3 years,and he is a good guy in all the other aspects.I feel sorry if I leave him for this reason,could anyone tell me what I should do to help him out of that.....
    he said he is just collecting ,nothing else///

    :-(
    Just dump him he sounds like a loser. Or if what I have written offends you then obviously you care about him. In that case maybe you should consider why.
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    yes,he is not handsome and my friends ask me to leave him as I am better than him,but I do not ,because we have been together for 3 years,and he is a good guy in all the other aspects.I feel sorry if I leave him for this reason,could anyone tell me what I should do to help him out of that.....
    he said he is just collecting ,nothing else///

    :-(
    He doesn't seem like a nice guy - 'collecting' my arse.
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    (Original post by Michael Beaver)
    Just dump him he sounds like a loser. Or if what I have written offends you then obviously you care about him. In that case maybe you should consider why.
    I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
    I will not call him,am I wrong???
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    I slamped him ,and threw something towards his face,he asked me to leave his room straight away,I did not,instead I was crying,eventually,he got his key and left....
    I will not call him,am I wrong???

    Do you have posters of semi naked men on your wall at home? Any difference?
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    (Original post by tommypip)
    Do you have posters of semi naked men on your wall at home? Any difference?
    no,I do not,but I am trying to have some now,so that he will feel what I felt.....
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    well i dont think that there is n e thing wrong with that because really if you think about it, mayb there r not naked, but i bet you have pictures of famous men or boys u think r fit stuck round ure room or on ure diary or wherever he's basically jst doin that ,ok a bit exageratedly but i dont think there is n e reason for hating him JUST because he lyks a few pictures!!!!!!!!!
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    no,I do not,but I am trying to have some now,so that he will feel what I felt.....
    i personally believe that retaliation is not a good method for this !!!
    Bettr u try to speak to him..and if he does not understand...u have only one choice left !!!
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    i personally believe that retaliation is not a good method for this !!!
    Bettr u try to speak to him..and if he does not understand...u have only one choice left !!!
    you should definately speak to him about it.
    he isn't being unfaithful, there's not really anything wrong with him being interested in porn, but he shouldn't lie to you about it or try to hide it from you!
    if you feel that strongly about it, maybe you should leave him.
    looking at other people doesn't neccessarilly mean he wants you less....
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    (Original post by upset girl)
    yes,you are right.,that is why he lies to me...I can not believe why he interested in these,and he is a good bf in all way expect this.........I hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Just go online and look at the opposite of what he views. What is fair for one is fair for the other. Deleting his pictures and replacing them with your choices is another option.
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    (Original post by feebs)
    you should definately speak to him about it.
    he isn't being unfaithful, there's not really anything wrong with him being interested in porn, but he shouldn't lie to you about it or try to hide it from you!
    if you feel that strongly about it, maybe you should leave him.
    looking at other people doesn't neccessarilly mean he wants you less....
    exactly, u make a point !!
 
 
 
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