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Does any other girls find it hard to orgasm during being 'fingered'

like it says in the title.. is it just me or does any other girl find it hard?

the thing is Ive recently got with this guy he's the nicest guy and loves me being pleasured but even though he does everything right when pleasuring me i just can't seem to orgasm and it annoys him and me in a way. he thinks he must be doing something wrong.

advice?

Tongue.

LipsOh

like it says in the title.. is it just me or does any other girl find it hard?

the thing is Ive recently got with this guy he's the nicest guy and loves me being pleasured but even though he does everything right when pleasuring me i just can't seem to orgasm and it annoys him and me in a way. he thinks he must be doing something wrong.

advice?

Has it been the same with every guy you've ever been with?

Reply 3

Shazzam123

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Ah yes, the mythical female orgasm.

Reply 4

taurus26

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Do you find it just as difficult with penetrative sex too?

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LipsOh

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RawJoh1

Has it been the same with every guy you've ever been with?

Well yeah but it's different with him he's trying to pleasure me, he wants me to be satisfied. The others weren't that interested tbh which made me not that interested which i thought was the reason i didn't orgasm with them.

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Anonymous #1

I never reach an orgasm from fingering, not even when doing it to myself.
Clitoris work (ha, bad phrase for it but yeah) or a tounge (of someone else obviously. not your own. i mean, that would be impossible. unless you were a contortionist)

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LipsOh

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taurus26

Do you find it just as difficult with penetrative sex too?

Nope, i can reach an orgasm with penetrative sex after awhile but just not with foreplay which is rather annoying. And it annoys him a hell of a lot.

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YL_LDN

LipsOh

like it says in the title.. is it just me or does any other girl find it hard?

the thing is Ive recently got with this guy he's the nicest guy and loves me being pleasured but even though he does everything right when pleasuring me i just can't seem to orgasm and it annoys him and me in a way. he thinks he must be doing something wrong.

advice?

Thats probably why, it happens when sex is not routine and expected.

Reply 9

northern-vic

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tbf its hard to orgasm during fingering if their nails are long, why dont ya just use a garden fork its bloody less blunt!!

Reply 10

Staralfur9

My boyfriend has pretty much got his technique down... :smile:

Just make sure everything is being stimulated in time, and keep a steady rhythm. Relax and don't rush it.

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LipsOh

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Anonymous

I never reach an orgasm from fingering, not even when doing it to myself.
Clitoris work (ha, bad phrase for it but yeah) or a tounge (of someone else obviously. not your own. i mean, that would be impossible. unless you were a contortionist)

Well he trys clitoris work (as you put it haha) aswel as fingering but none of them work. its enjoyable but just can't reach the 'O' =/

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LipsOh

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northern-vic

tbf its hard to orgasm during fingering if their nails are long, why dont ya just use a garden fork its bloody less blunt!!

lmao! you give it a try tell me how it works out for you :P and his nails aren't long he bites them too much :P

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black_mac29

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LipsOh

like it says in the title.. is it just me or does any other girl find it hard?

the thing is Ive recently got with this guy he's the nicest guy and loves me being pleasured but even though he does everything right when pleasuring me i just can't seem to orgasm and it annoys him and me in a way. he thinks he must be doing something wrong.

advice?

ask him if he'd like sugar pie for desert.

Reply 14

taurus26

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LipsOh

Nope, i can reach an orgasm with penetrative sex after awhile but just not with foreplay which is rather annoying. And it annoys him a hell of a lot.

I think its great that you can reach orgasm with penetrative sex, because thats where alot of women have problems, and its the foreplay that gets them to climax.

If he gets really annoyed about it, you can just be really sexy and tell him you can get off with him inside of you, you love his willy etc etc... i.e. give him an ego boost and reassure him that you are enjoying yourself.

If it bothers you too, you can help him learn how to get you to orgasm rahter than leaving it all up to his initiative.

Reply 15

TheLouisVuittonDon

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taurus26

tell him you can get off with him inside of you, you love his willy etc etc..

LMAO.

it has for me

Who is fingering themselves rn

Reply 18

Nylahdavis

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I'm fingering my self rn

Reply 19

Yeet34554

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Original post by LipsOh

like it says in the title.. is it just me or does any other girl find it hard?

the thing is Ive recently got with this guy he's the nicest guy and loves me being pleasured but even though he does everything right when pleasuring me i just can't seem to orgasm and it annoys him and me in a way. he thinks he must be doing something wrong.

advice?

Girl I am so with you! I can only seem to orgasm when I pleasure myself and it honestly frustrates me because my boyfriend wants to make me *** so bad

Does any other girls find it hard to orgasm during being 'fingered'

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