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Is it pervy for a 45 year old man to fancy a girl in her early/mid 20s?
What do you think? This is the age gap between me and my boss, and I have a feeling he is attracted to me. He's not acting inappropiately, I was just wondering if you think it's OK for a man to fancy a girl young enough to be his daughter? Do you think it's pervy for him to feel like this, even if he doesn't make a move?
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It would creep me out tbh.
well tough ****, girls are at their most attractive when 18-20 so of course any male will drool... if you dont like it, wear a burqa
He's only human.
I'm guessing you were brought up with the notion that all older men are at most friendly father figures, and feel no emotion whatsoever towards younger women. Uh-oh.
It's not 'creepy' for him to simply be attracted to you despite him being a certain age and you another. If he acted on it without your consent, then yes. But boss/ worker relationships are a whole 'nother kettle of taboo fish anyway.
It's not 'creepy' for him to simply be attracted to you despite him being a certain age and you another. If he acted on it without your consent, then yes. But boss/ worker relationships are a whole 'nother kettle of taboo fish anyway.
No. Just because someone ages doesn't mean they suddenly find old, saggy women attractive. Of course they're going to find younger ones still attractive.
Personally, I think it's rather twisted and sickening, so I'd say yeah, it's pervy.
it is a little bit....
I'd say it's more a mid-life crisis issue
May be it would be inappropriate to act on it, but it's perfectly natural to find women of that age attractive however old you are. I don't think there's anything weird about that. There might be something weird about a 45 year old actively seeking relationships with women that young, but even that's not always true.
To be honest, I think it's normal to be physically attracted to girls maybe even as young as 15 or so, regardless of your age.
To be honest, I think it's normal to be physically attracted to girls maybe even as young as 15 or so, regardless of your age.
Not really. Unless he acts all pervy and creepy, he's not being a creep.
There's no law saying people should only be with people their own age.. and tbh, it all depends on how you feel about the age gap, cos its a view that differs from person to person.
Although.. think about a 35 year old liking a 12 year old. eeew. *shudders* But yeah, that's not really the same matter.
One of my friends got married to a 46 year old yesterday, and she's 25.. so i guess if you're both adults, and you are fine with it, there's nothing wrong with a larger age gap..
There's no law saying people should only be with people their own age.. and tbh, it all depends on how you feel about the age gap, cos its a view that differs from person to person.
Although.. think about a 35 year old liking a 12 year old. eeew. *shudders* But yeah, that's not really the same matter.
One of my friends got married to a 46 year old yesterday, and she's 25.. so i guess if you're both adults, and you are fine with it, there's nothing wrong with a larger age gap..
Thats pretty darn creepy to be honest 
I feel sorry for you if you're past 20 and this is the first 45 year old to take a fancy. I think every lecturer is in love with me and fawns over the other girls. Have you heard of white van men? And your dad's mates you've known since 3? Want to get into your pants right now.
With me it's every one I come across.
No, most don't have a chance poor things. But unfortunately the male sex is doomed to be creepy - biology makes them crave women half their age, even though everything about that is inherently fecking weird. The good thing is the reality is they fail and people like Leo Dicaprio, Robert Pattinson are always flavours of the month.
Old wrinkliess are just as attractive as the old wrinklies they bemoan for being just that. Logic is mad sometimes.
With me it's every one I come across.
No, most don't have a chance poor things. But unfortunately the male sex is doomed to be creepy - biology makes them crave women half their age, even though everything about that is inherently fecking weird. The good thing is the reality is they fail and people like Leo Dicaprio, Robert Pattinson are always flavours of the month.
Old wrinkliess are just as attractive as the old wrinklies they bemoan for being just that. Logic is mad sometimes.
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May be it would be inappropriate to act on it, but it's perfectly natural to find women of that age attractive however old you are. I don't think there's anything weird about that. There might be something weird about a 45 year old actively seeking relationships with women that young, but even that's not always true.
To be honest, I think it's normal to be physically attracted to girls maybe even as young as 15 or so, regardless of your age.
To be honest, I think it's normal to be physically attracted to girls maybe even as young as 15 or so, regardless of your age.
They're kids. It's inherently not cool sorry. Never will be, despite the outcries of men who want it to be the case.
No, not really. If you were a teen on the otherhand..
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