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Askin a guy out

I realli like this guy whos doing building ork on our extension hes about 17/18 and I want 2 ask him out the prob is im realli shy and even if u said just do it i wouldnt be able 2 i dont have the courage but i realli like him what can i do??

Reply 1

jpowell

15

So you want to ask him out, but if we told you to ask him out you would still be too shy. Well I think you have a problem then.

Reply 2

bestdeceptions

2

You want to ask out your builder? :rolleyes:

Well seeing as you have absolutely no idea what he's like, why don't you take him a cup of tea and get chatting (trust me, builders love tea! Not that I'd want to ask mine out as they are 50+, but they love me making them tea). You might want to get to know him a bit first before you go out with the guy.

Reply 3

dave

You have to remember that when it comes to asking girls out - HE may be as shy as you. Ok so if you want to take the lead - do it with humour and cover it up with cheese. Example follows.

"Hi. Look, I'm not too good at fixing dates, but, see, my mobile's fallen for YOUR mobile. Any chance of them calling each other?"

***sits back and waits for howls of derisive laughter from other members***

Reply 4

cat_meiow

1

Well wait til like his last day of working there and ask him out if he says yes, all good if not you won't have to see him ever again. Oh and inbetween flirt like crazy gal. Its all good experience isn't it and the worst that can happen is he will say no, and think about it thats not the end of the world.

Reply 5

Saree

1

Flirt!!!!! :biggrin:

Flash him your bestest smile! :biggrin:

Reply 6

~NC~

11

Well seeing as you have absolutely no idea what he's like, why don't you take him a cup of tea and get chatting

I agree, builders love Tea, thats an ideal way to get him talking to you! Get to know him properly and well you never know what will happen! :tee:

Reply 7

SideView

1

Tea is the way forward!

Reply 8

~NC~

11

Tea is the way forward!

It is indeed!!!

Reply 9

Hayley_2k4

12

like the others have said, tea/coffee all the way :p:

Reply 10

hippieglitter

19

hulachick15

I realli like this guy whos doing building ork on our extension hes about 17/18 and I want 2 ask him out the prob is im realli shy and even if u said just do it i wouldnt be able 2 i dont have the courage but i realli like him what can i do??

Random question i know but do you by any chance live in Somerset?

Reply 11

cat_meiow

1

So have you made any advances on the builder yet?

Reply 12

Cirsium

19

Maybe she made bad tea and he was so upset he said no and now she's weeping from rejection...

Reply 13

cat_meiow

1

Bekaboo

Maybe she made bad tea and he was so upset he said no and now she's weeping from rejection...

Or mayb the tea worked and now she is too busy for TSR

Reply 14

at least lara

1

being friendly is a big step.....he may be just as shy as you are. you have to get it out in the open that you're interested

Reply 15

Everdawn

13

hulachick15

I realli like this guy whos doing building ork on our extension hes about 17/18 and I want 2 ask him out the prob is im realli shy and even if u said just do it i wouldnt be able 2 i dont have the courage but i realli like him what can i do??

lol, thats so cute, however you may want to do some homework forst and make sure hes not taken, perhaps you could chat to himn while hes working for a few minutes and get to know him a bit?

Reply 16

saz_1989

2

Communication is an essential part of relationships, perhaps you should start small with a "hello"?

Reply 17

~NC~

11

Lol hello always helps!

Reply 18

zhivago

2

Um, the builder? I'm sure you could set your sights on someone a bit more accessible couldn't you?! Just be nice, flirt, smile. Talk to him, squeeze past him in small spaces, wear nice clothes. Bat your eyelids like a proper girl, and just flirt with him. Make it especially obvious you're interested in him, and not any 40 year old colleagues he may have. Then as someone said, ask him out on his last day, however, you don't know him, so it could be quite dodgy. I say you go out and man-hunt instead. Just because he's fit, he could be a total poohead. Good Luck anyway, let us know...

Reply 19

Lirael Abhorsen

1

ask you're parents if you can handle the building negotiations -they may pay you for it and then you can direct the builders in their labour and casually start up conversation with this guy - and ofc make him tea and even biscuits :wink:

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