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    Right, I was going out this guy when I was 16 (I’m 18 now) and he was 24. well anyway, we were together for about an year all in all. Then I found out he had been cheating on me, and had gotten some girl pregnant. Needless to say, that was the end of that relationship. Now, I got a letter through the door the other day, it’s a invention to there wedding. I don’t know what to do, I sort of want to see him again, I’m thinking of going. What do you all think?
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    Don't go if you see him there it will just confuse you, hes getting married to someone else he probably wont even have time to see you on the day. Just forget him, what do you hope to achieve in seeing him again?
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    an invention to their wedding?


    I'd advise you to not go - i mean - when was the last time you saw him?
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    Dont go!

    Exs are evil, think about how you would feel if you saw him again.
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    Hmmmm if you go what do you think will happen and how will that make you feel?
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    (Original post by Hayley_2k4)
    Right, I was going out this guy when I was 16 (I’m 18 now) and he was 24. well anyway, we were together for about an year all in all. Then I found out he had been cheating on me, and had gotten some girl pregnant. Needless to say, that was the end of that relationship. Now, I got a letter through the door the other day, it’s a invention to there wedding. I don’t know what to do, I sort of want to see him again, I’m thinking of going. What do you all think?
    If he has invited you I think you should go
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    I don't think it's just about the ex - it's more a case of how his new wife would feel.
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    Yes I think you are right in what you are saying
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    I wouldn't go if you have any sort of romantic feelings for him.
    If you genuinely have moved on and don't feel much for him anymore go.
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    I wouldn't say "don't go".

    If you want to go, and you think you want to go for the right reasons, then go. Otherwise, it seems a bit weird. An invitation to watch him marry the person he cheated on you with? I don't know how I'd feel about that. On the other hand, he must have invited you for a reason. If you feel you've moved on and would like to go, then there's nothing wrong with it.
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    u were 16 and he was 24???? :eek: :eek: :eek:
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    I'd say don't go. He probably only invited you to make you feel bad and get an extra present.
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    That's a very cynical thing to say. Your wedding is one of the most special days in your life. You're not going to invite someone you don't like unless they're a relative and you have to!
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    (Original post by chazzinio)
    u were 16 and he was 24???? :eek: :eek: :eek:

    yeah, I know. young and foolish, should of known better
 
 
 
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