do i even bother with my boyfriend?

text him and ask him if he still wants to bother going out. i started seeing my boyfriend a month and a half before uni finished, and even tho he's away for a month we're still gonna try. but if he cheats on me it's over. you deserve to know what's going on.

You wait...see if he replies with a civil text. Balls in his court now. Maybe he was a little drunk, trying to make you jealous. Seems like a bit of a boob to me but he could turn out to be ok

Go and see him when he gets back, and search his luggage form any incriminating photographs

He might just have been stating a fact. Maybe there are lots of sluts there. Doesn't mean he is doing anything with them. You cant do anything more about it till you have more evidence.

but i havent heard from him since, and its not like him to be so rude.
but why wud he say there are lots of sluts there, its not like him to say anything like that at all

Well if he is abroad, remember international texts are not cheap!! If he is on holiday maybe he is not checking his phone much, I know i dont.

Drink loosens the tongue, i say things that i would not say when sober.

ok so i was seeing this guy for about a month before uni ended and it was going good at hte start but the last week was a lil difficult to meet up and stuff so it wasnt going too well. and the fact that i was leaving for 3 months didnt help either.

we decided to stay together for the 3 months cos he says he really likes me.
we text each other every couple of days but nothing special. cant expect much tho cos we were only together for a month.

anyway i text him on friday asking him how he was and if he had left for his holiday yet, he text me back on sat night saying "yes and there are lots of sluts here" there was no hi, no kisses at the end of the text nothing.
i replied with a mean text saying oh well i guess i wont need to with u luck in getting laid.
havent heard anythin from him since.

what do i do from now on?

i know but think he might stay there til sept... why cant he jus end it instead of keeping it like this?
if he really cared he wud at least tell me something more than theres lots of sluts here!

well thats rather blunt isnt it. I get frustrated with guys like that and i often get angry at my Josh if i send a long txt and all i get back is... "Ok" annoys the crap out of me.

But still, so you dont seem paranoyed, just make a witty observation about it and txt him back with it.

Maybe he doesn't want to end it as he may really like you but is the silent type when it comes to feelings. I know that is the way with one of my mates, at the beginning of his current relationship I had to tell her how he was feeling about the relationship cause he gave out no signals. He is completely blank in that area, always has been!!

i kno hes really shy and i kno hes liked me since uni started but ive been confident in telling him i like him as well and theres no need to be shy.
i guess some guys can jus be like that

Women are very scary cratures who can deny you sex at the drop of a hat, of course we are shy, we say nothing so as we don't piss you off and don't get sex!!!

i am not scary! im nice!
and its not entirely a bad thing if i dont jump straight into bed with him!

All girls a scary, full stop!!

Oh it is a bad thing from the guy's point of view!!

how about if the girl is extremely hot and every guy wants to sleep with her but the only way she sleeps with a guy is if shes in a relationship and has been for a while and your the guy shes with!?
slight exageration i know

[mobsteraccent] You talking about my gf?? [/mobsteraccent]

Still scary, trust me!!

but thats the thing should i bother texting him or shud i wait and see if he texts me?
i mean i kno he really likes me and he wanted to stay together over summer so we cud still be together when i get back.
and if he texts me shud i jus end it and put myself out of this silliness?