Would you find this "Spontaneous"?

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I'm trying to spark something with this girl, but I've been accused (and quite rightly so :frown:

) of being a tad boring in my approach.

I've not tried anything with a girl in about a year now (Except the odd pull when out and this girl) so I'm a bit rusty.

The problem is, I find it hard to get her on her own, she always seems to be with her group of friends and although its easy talking to them all, it gets tricky trying to speak to her on her own without proclaiming your affection. haha.

I've actually kissed said girl before, quite recently too. So I think I stand a chance. Put yourself in this situation.

You recieve a text at college, it says, "Go to room bla bla bla". You go, and then there is this guy you think quite likes you. Then he tries making a move.

Would you find that boring or a bit different? What would you think if a guy did that to you?

Reply 1

pimpman777

2

Sounds a bit lame tbh, it's spontaneous, but not in the right way.

Reply 2

Legendary?

OP

2

I'm totally stumped then ... I've lost my game.

Reply 3

mr eko

11

Sounds like you're planning some suprise sex.

Reply 4

tinktinktinkerbell

16

i would think he was only after one thing so i would tell him to **** off

Reply 5

taperjeangirl!

9

I'd find it a bit creepy D: Just ask her out sometime.. if you've already kissed then I reckon she's likely to say yes.

Reply 6

Fuzzpig

16

Just invite her out for coffee/drinks/movies.

Reply 7

Spanghew

11

it doesn't seem spontaneous.

if anything, it sounds like a premeditated sex-attack.

Reply 8

Princess Bubbles

16

I would think what a freak...

Reply 9

MC REN

14

I'd be shocked if she went on her own (if at all) if she got that text

Reply 10

Broderss

3

Spanghew

it doesn't seem spontaneous.

if anything, it sounds like a premeditated sex-attack.

This.

*day rape*

Reply 11

Legendary?

OP

2

Thing is, one of her friends who i'm close to told me that she said i was being a bit boring about the whole thing.

However, I say, let's go out sometime but she shrugged me off straight away and said, "Well I think i'm busy till after the new year ..." Surely she would have a free afternoon before then?

And before you say, "well she obviously doesn't like you then" she's said she thinks i'm good looking, a nice guy and she even told me she wanted to get to know me better over text.

So y'know, I don't know where to go from here ... :frown:

Reply 12

mr-breaker

7

Legendary?

I'm totally stumped then ... I've lost my game.

sounds like you never had any in the first place tbf.......

Reply 13

Flying Cookie

19

No, no, don't do it. It WILL be awkward for both of you, probably for you more because you'd know what you were doing. It's one of those things that looks great in films and works in your mind, but will fail in real life.

Reply 14

spacepirate-James

18

Your asking us how to be spontaneous?

:facepalm:

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Please don't do it, it sounds really creepy? And you'll probably get slapped...

Reply 15

Earthly

12

Spanghew

it doesn't seem spontaneous.

if anything, it sounds like a premeditated sex-attack.

ahhahahahahha

Reply 16

kamc

15

If I got a text telling me to go to room x I would ignore it.
You can't plan to be spontaneous :P

Reply 17

Mess.

20

Lame and rape filled.

"fancy going for a walk" etc is much easier and less rapey...

Reply 18

Nfixlol

2

this is only acceptable if the girl sends the text tbh, don't do it :no:

find a rave or something to take her to, that could be seen as more spontaneous, less rapey and less of a 'boring approach'.

Reply 19

Mess.

20

Legendary?

Thing is, one of her friends who i'm close to told me that she said i was being a bit boring about the whole thing.

However, I say, let's go out sometime but she shrugged me off straight away and said, "Well I think i'm busy till after the new year ..." Surely she would have a free afternoon before then?

And before you say, "well she obviously doesn't like you then" she's said she thinks i'm good looking, a nice guy and she even told me she wanted to get to know me better over text.

So y'know, I don't know where to go from here ... :frown:

It is entirely possible to be busy until after the new year so why not just wait until after the new year.

Or spontaneously appear wherever she is going on new year and give her a penis full of rape.

Would you find this "Spontaneous"?

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