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    i met this guy who was 25 im 18 and he kept texting me asking me to meet and for some stupid reason i didnt reply then i met him out of chance the next week.
    i told him i liked him but there was this girl there aswell who he also liked but hadnt seen her in ages.
    he rang me the next day and sed he was sorry for getting me mixed up in everything and then i rang him about 2 days later, he said things werent happening with this other girl, later that night he text me and sed lets meet his wend i said yeah.
    But the next day i text him saying sorry for ringin him cos i had rung him at 2am and he text back sayin looks like im gonna get with this other girl now..
    i text him loads the other day when i was drunk but he didnt reply, my friend rang him aswell. Now i think that he thinkgs im a looser which is probs right but i cant stop thinking about him, and wish i had said yes when he asked to meet up 2 weeks ago. I know i have to 4get him but i cant :confused: i wanna text him but dont know whether to??
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    NO. Don't bother. Do you really want to be somebodies second best, even if it doesn't work out for him and this girl? He sounds like a bit of a user.
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    i get what ur saying but it was me who said if things dont work out with her then call me.. and he is actually the sweetest guy i have ever known. he called me after i met him last week to apologise for being a d1ck to me he didnt have to but he did.. argghh as soon as i get over my ex bf i find myself not being able to get over this guy and its stupid seeming as i only met him twice
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    Exactly. You only met him twice. So there's no real way of knowing if he is truly the 'sweetest guy ever'.
    Even if he is a nice guy, it's clear he prefers this other girl because he's put her first. And it's obvious that he has messed you around to a degree.
    In texting him/ getting your friend to call you might have pushed him away even further. Quit now before it gets any worse.
    I'd forget him and move on. Sorry it turned out like that, but good luck!
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    i get what ur saying but it was me who said if things dont work out with her then call me.. and he is actually the sweetest guy i have ever known. he called me after i met him last week to apologise for being a d1ck to me he didnt have to but he did.. argghh as soon as i get over my ex bf i find myself not being able to get over this guy and its stupid seeming as i only met him twice
    I think that you need to nip this in the bud before you start obsessing over someone who is going to mess you around (no matter how sweet he seems). And the more he messes you around, the more you'll want him. Don't get sucked in!! Don't text him again, wait for him to text you. If he like you he will, if he doesn't he's a t0$$er. But i really would steer clear...
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    kk thanks. argghh i wish i didnt get like this lol
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    i met this guy who was 25 im 18 and he kept texting me asking me to meet and for some stupid reason i didnt reply then i met him out of chance the next week.
    i told him i liked him but there was this girl there aswell who he also liked but hadnt seen her in ages.
    he rang me the next day and sed he was sorry for getting me mixed up in everything and then i rang him about 2 days later, he said things werent happening with this other girl, later that night he text me and sed lets meet his wend i said yeah.
    But the next day i text him saying sorry for ringin him cos i had rung him at 2am and he text back sayin looks like im gonna get with this other girl now..
    i text him loads the other day when i was drunk but he didnt reply, my friend rang him aswell. Now i think that he thinkgs im a looser which is probs right but i cant stop thinking about him, and wish i had said yes when he asked to meet up 2 weeks ago. I know i have to 4get him but i cant :confused: i wanna text him but dont know whether to??
    cut ur losses and don't think about him. It seems to me that he is treating her as his "firm choice" and you as his "insurance"...so "Decline" his "offer" and find urself a new man.
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    your second best forget him he's only going to go out with you if the other girl dumps him find someone new who is in your reach
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    Whatever you do, stop texting him and so on, and delete his number so you can't do it while drunk. You don't want to lose any more dignity over this!
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    Whatever you do, stop texting him and so on, and delete his number so you can't do it while drunk. You don't want to lose any more dignity over this!
    lol thats true its the worst thing a girl can do, text a guy when shes drunk get her mates to call him, it makes you look like a child :rolleyes:
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    i deleted his number the other day
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    i didnt ask them to call him they called him cos my mate had his number on her phone then they told me they just rang him so i text him and said sorry for them ringin him
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    i deleted his number the other day
    Good on you, the fact that you already did it means you're well on the way to forgetting about him.. if you were really really obsessed then you wouldn't be able to!

    You'll have found someone new and better before you know it
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    i deleted his number the other day
    There you go! See, I think you know yourself that he's just a waste of time..... :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    i didnt ask them to call him they called him cos my mate had his number on her phone then they told me they just rang him so i text him and said sorry for them ringin him
    nothing worse then drunken teenagers ringing and texting boys my mates hate it and it pissesd me off when im trying to have a convo with them and thier phone keeps going
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    yeah but its not our fault if u dnt know that they're ringin u guys is it.. i guess it must be pretty annoying but i think this guy was on his own when they called.. my mates are well annoying over stuff like this lol
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    (Original post by jen1987)
    yeah but its not our fault if u dnt know that they're ringin u guys is it.. i guess it must be pretty annoying but i think this guy was on his own when they called.. my mates are well annoying over stuff like this lol
    they shouldnt call thwem in he first place when they are drunk
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    yeah i know but still lol who changed the name of this topic??
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    I did, i change titles to threads to make them more informative.
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    how is this agrammatical and confusing?
 
 
 
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