This Isn&#x27;t Good Is It?

-TMG-

Okay. I haven't seen my 'girlfriend' for months now because we were broke up for a while, we were supposed to be back together. She got back off holiday yesterday. Tonight she hardly says anything to me. She says she's doing coursework so I say okay I'll leave you. Her reply is 'sup to u' I say well I'll go anyway cos you never talk to me (she doesnt trust me its always me saying stuff like 'so what you up to'.

So after a while, I come back online and she doesnt talk to me again. So I say to her 'so do you think we should bother going out'. Nothing happens for an hour and then just as I go to type somethin she goes offline and I assume goes to bed.

Is that immature? She's always doing stuff like this? I mean I asked her that to see how she felt. We are hardly going out since she lives miles away plus she never talks to me and only asks me to phone her when she's horny.

Anyway I just want to know...I wouldn't be wrong to break up with her? And she's 15, she lied to me about her age and only told me recently. Thanks.

well if shes lyin bout her age and stuff maybe it would be a little immature.....she maybe using you just when shes horny to relieve herself of sexual tension...... my opinion is you can get a whole better girl than her if shes being like that its uncalled for :frown:

xoxo

Reply 2

hmmmm u should look up ur definition of a girlfriend mate

Reply 3

se77en

hmmmm u should look up ur definition of a girlfriend mate

i agree

seriously shes only using ya xoxo

Reply 4

-TMG-

OP

9

Yeah I know '7' thus the term girlfriend was in inverted commas. We did used to see each other often but then we broke up for a while...if she wont even answer the question should we go out she cant be all that interested.

Yet its this same girl who's said she wants my children and wants to marry me, and loves me more than anything...

Reply 5

tishysquishy

10

dump the girly, get with someone who at least talks to you. No one would think you're in the wrong.

Reply 6

it sounds a bit like ur a pushover..... how old r u? and please dnt say this is an 'online girlfriend' or something!

Reply 7

-TMG-

Yeah I know '7' thus the term girlfriend was in inverted commas. We did used to see each other often but then we broke up for a while...if she wont even answer the question should we go out she cant be all that interested.

Yet its this same girl who's said she wants my children and wants to marry me, and loves me more than anything...

nah shes treatin u like s***e and thinks she has u wrapped round her finger..... xoxo

Reply 8

Little Girl Red

1

i dont think she really counts as a girlfriend - and i think she is immature. my advice is dump her, and get together with somebody who really appreciates you.

Reply 9

-TMG-

OP

9

Yeah. And she sorta was a proper girlfriend although I could only see her once a week since she lives so far away. I met her parents and she stayed at mine loads of times. Yet she does things like these, over and over. I'm 19 and I kept giving the girl a chance because she cried to me on the phone sayin she loves me and everything. But I met another girl now, my age and who has an indoor pool and everythin :biggrin:

And she invited me to a party. Although that isn't the reason, its given me the confidence to dump her and ignore any of the lines or cries she may then use. I was a soft touch with her, because I'm a nice guy. But the girl takes the piss.

Reply 10

-TMG-

Yeah. And she sorta was a proper girlfriend although I could only see her once a week since she lives so far away. I met her parents and she stayed at mine loads of times. Yet she does things like these, over and over. I'm 19 and I kept giving the girl a chance because she cried to me on the phone sayin she loves me and everything. But I met another girl now, my age and who has an indoor pool and everythin :biggrin:

And she invited me to a party. Although that isn't the reason, its given me the confidence to dump her and ignore any of the lines or cries she may then use. I was a soft touch with her, because I'm a nice guy. But the girl takes the piss.

shes completely takin the mickey outta you..... and is extremely immature for her age shes acting like a spoilt 12 year old, its good that u found a new girl cause you dont need s*** like that cryin in ur ear every 5 minutes xoxo

Reply 11

ur 19 and you have a 15 year old 'girlfriend' that doesnt live near you and that doesnt speak to you! your life sounds great!

Reply 12

tate

1

ignore her for a bit, then if she loves you as much as she says she does then she'll come running.

Reply 13

se77en

ur 19 and you have a 15 year old 'girlfriend' that doesnt live near you and that doesnt speak to you! your life sounds great!

awwwww se77en that aint fair to say..... i had a boyfriend who lived 10 miles from me.....was extremely hard and i was 16 and he was 19 at the time..... xoxo

Reply 14

looks like hes got an easy decision....... take the girl with the pool...

Reply 15

se77en

looks like hes got an easy decision....... take the girl with the pool...

u would do the same :wink:

xoxo

Reply 16

-TMG-

OP

9

se77en

ur 19 and you have a 15 year old 'girlfriend' that doesnt live near you and that doesnt speak to you! your life sounds great!

Your life is so great you have to make guesses as to how great someone else's life is. Yeah mine is great how's yours?

I have other things goin for me than this girl. Is the worth of a persons life based on the age of their partner these days. Grow up 7 (probably your age).

Reply 17

obviously..... she rich.. lives near and wil have pool parties with tons of girls in bikinis........ its a no brainer really!

Reply 18