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Should I, Shouldn't I?

Im considering going out with someone who is 15. I am 18. She is hot and fairly mature i guess. Now i know its a little dodgy legally, but if i dont call her not only will we both be sad but im sure someone else will go for her. Should i go for it or hold back.

This is bugging me :frown:

Also if you're too lazy to reply, just vote in the poll.

PS: don't redirect me to an age gap thread.

Reply 1

fabulous_darling

15

Go for it. Try and find a 15 year old girl who actually goes out with someone her own age and you'll be looking for a long time. When I was 15, the vast majority of my 15 year old girlfriends went out with people who were a couple of years older.

But, please don't just go out with her because, as you said, "she's hot". Go out with her for her personality and suchlike. To go out with her because "she's hot" would automatically gain you the label of some kind of pervy person.

Just be careful and everything should be fine.

Reply 2

saz_1989

2

Wait til she's 16. At least before you take it further physically. When she's 16, go for it!

Reply 3

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

Herleif Arkadios

Im considering going out with someone who is 15. I am 18. She is hot and fairly mature i guess. Now i know its a little dodgy legally, but if i dont call her not only will we both be sad but im sure someone else will go for her. Should i go for it or hold back.

This is bugging me :frown:

Also if you're too lazy to reply, just vote in the poll.

PS: don't redirect me to an age gap thread.

if you really like her then its ok, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!! and good luck :wink:

xoxo

Reply 4

Naxalite

humm i dunno, leave her for the young ones... why can't people go out with people their own age range?! under sixteen is off limits man... look for a nice 17-19 year old girl. They are hard to come by though... it seems they also want older men but you may get lucky...

Reply 5

Herleif

OP

spangletastic

Go for it. Try and find a 15 year old girl who actually goes out with someone her own age and you'll be looking for a long time. When I was 15, the vast majority of my 15 year old girlfriends went out with people who were a couple of years older.

But, please don't just go out with her because, as you said, "she's hot". Go out with her for her personality and suchlike. To go out with her because "she's hot" would automatically gain you the label of some kind of pervy person.

Just be careful and everything should be fine.

Im not the kind of guy who would go out with a girl just for an easy shag and i do like her personality but i think the best way to find out more about her personality would be to go out with her... but, some of you don't think i should.
If i do what you say, Lauren, then il be with her for quite a while before i take it further which would be odd, and tbh, i don't think shes ridiculously innocent and all that. I mean i met her through some stoner friends of mine. (thats not too say shes a total pothead)
Still... :confused:

tis a dilemma :frown:

Reply 6

Herleif

OP

the poll is not proving very decisive.

Reply 7

jatp

2

go 4 it, "if it bleeds, it breeds", lol i couldnt help myself on that one, my mate's always saying that when we consider jail bate!

Reply 8

Bape

2

Herleif Arkadios

Im not the kind of guy who would go out with a girl just for an easy shag and i do like her personality but i think the best way to find out more about her personality would be to go out with her... but, some of you don't think i should.
If i do what you say, Lauren, then il be with her for quite a while before i take it further which would be odd, and tbh, i don't think shes ridiculously innocent and all that. I mean i met her through some stoner friends of mine. (thats not too say shes a total pothead)
Still... :confused:

tis a dilemma :frown:

Personally, i would say no, but if you do really like her as you say....and not just looks, etc, but personality wise, then i s'pose its alright. Even then, i would still say its best to wait till she's 16 to take it further. :smile:

no, shes too young

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

but you all are going to the sexual side of the relationship.....whos to say he wants a sexual relationship with the girl just yet? xoxo

Reply 11

hippieglitter

19

If you like her, what have you got to lose, as long as you wait till she is over the age of consent before you have sex, thats if she feels ready, if not don't pressure her into doing it. If i were you i'd go for it. Your only 3 years apart its not a huge difference. There is nothing wrong with it. Good luck.

Reply 12

roff

2

coz, he is a normal guy tammy :wink:

hes not going in for hugging and talking about shopping :rolleyes:

Reply 13

kriztinae

14

a bigger age difference is better than the same age i think. most of my boyfriends are at least a year or 2 if not more older than me and thats the way i like it, i find that guys my age tend to be slightly more immature and i prefer to have them as friends.

Reply 14

Mustard-man

18

Lauren

Wait til she's 16. At least before you take it further physically. When she's 16, go for it!

yeah, i think you should wait till she's 16, she'll probably be even more mature :biggrin:

with better assets

Reply 15

kriztinae

14

gordon2002

yeah, i think you should wait till she's 16, she'll probably be even more mature :biggrin:

with better assets

but she'l probably be taken in a year

Reply 16

Whizz Kid

Go for it! Then bang the arse off her! Good luck.

Reply 17

at least lara

1

Ant93

If you like her, what have you got to lose, as long as you wait till she is over the age of consent before you have sex, thats if she feels ready, if not don't pressure her into doing it. If i were you i'd go for it. Your only 3 years apart its not a huge difference. There is nothing wrong with it. Good luck.