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Jelousy!

I have found myself getting really jelous recently with my bf. if i don't see him everyday or if he doesn't text me i get upset and jelous. we both have the same mates but if he goes out without me i get upset too. don't know if its to do with uni approaching or not. also i never used to but when we are out with girls as well i seem to get pretty protective and jelous if he talks to them. feel like a weirdo :smile:

also im goign on holiday for 2 weeks soon and find myself getting majorly upset thinking not seeing him for that long. im pretty insecure about myself and am always comparing myself to other girls thinking he will prefer them even though he tells me he loves me and treats me really well. is this normal :eek:

Reply 1

kriztinae

i get that sometimes, but i dunno how to explain it, youve done a good job of that!
it depends on your personality
maybe youve nevre felt so close to him and thats making you feel so scared to loose him. i reckon you cant help feeling jealous, but what you can do is not show it alot, i mean guys like to see their girlfriends jealous but if you over do it starts to irritate them and you might loose him.
how long you been with him for?

Reply 2

Playaboy

Everybody gets jealous...don't fret

Reply 3

Monkey_Maiden

been together about 7 months but i never used to be like this. we are very differnt though, he never flirts or looks at girls as he considers it cheating :smile:

says all he needs is me wheres i kinda like a bit of casual flirting sometimes :rolleyes:

Reply 4

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

Playaboy

Everybody gets jealous...don't fret

xoxo

Reply 5

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

Monkey_Maiden

been together about 7 months but i never used to be like this. we are very differnt though, he never flirts or looks at girls as he considers it cheating :smile:

says all he needs is me wheres i kinda like a bit of casual flirting sometimes :rolleyes:

lol just remember 'girls just wanna have fun' of course girls are gonna innocently flirt........i flirt all the time and never notice im doing it :rolleyes:

hehehe!!!!! :cool:

xoxo

Reply 6

Helenia

Monkey_Maiden

been together about 7 months but i never used to be like this. we are very differnt though, he never flirts or looks at girls as he considers it cheating :smile:

says all he needs is me wheres i kinda like a bit of casual flirting sometimes :rolleyes:

Well if he's the one who never seems interested in anyone else (coughcough) what are you worrying about? I think it's paranoia more than jealousy really, it seems fairly unfounded. Uni will make a huge change to your relationship and if you continue worrying like this it won't work.

Don't spend your holiday being self-indulgent and miserable just cos he's not there - there is a life outside of relationships and you should be able to enjoy yourself anyway!

Jacob, watch it. really.

Reply 7

kriztinae

Helenia

yeah definitely, uni is a real change and if u carry on feeling this ur gonna have a hell time at uni.
enjoy your holiday, time apart will do u good.

Reply 8

musicbloke

Monkey_Maiden

Ok everyone is welcome to their opinions but I wanted advice not insults. Don't bother replying to this thread if your not gonna help just put people down :mad:

I was not being insulting. I just think the forum wuld be much cleaner if people searched for threads of the same topic (there are about 5000000) on jealousy and it would make your post more comprehensible if you spelt correctly and used capital letters after full stops. It would certainly stop the post feeling like a stream of consciousness. My advice, on the other hand, was serious. You should try and fill your time with something productive rather than stewing in unproductive worry.

MB

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