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Holding back

Hi, My mate asked me the other day how to prolong the time it takes to ejaculate and I really didn't have a clue what to say to him because I couldn't really think of anything really apart fom the stop and start technique which would be dificult considering it would be his first time.

Can any of you think of any reasonable suggestions for him

Cheers

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Reply 1

Trousers

Oh, your 'mate' asked you, did he?

Right-oh.

Reply 2

Euge

Don't masturbate for one. That shortens the time between starting sex and ejaculating.

Reply 3

Barny

Isn't he trying to prolong? Why does it matter? Unless hes ejaculating in less than 5 minutes nobody really gives a ****, girls prefer guys who ejaculate quicker than those that last forever.

Reply 4

SamTheMan

Euge

Don't masturbate for one. That shortens the time between starting sex and ejaculating.

ummmm it's the other way round. If he masturbates shortly before anything happens, he'll last longer.

Reply 5

SamTheMan

imasillynarb

Isn't he trying to prolong? Why does it matter? Unless hes ejaculating in less than 5 minutes nobody really gives a ****, girls prefer guys who ejaculate quicker than those that last forever.

coming from the expert!

Reply 6

Lirael Abhorsen

someone i know was talking about the crudely named "cock rings" which apparently help with this sort of problem?

Reply 7

sanelunatic

Speed up or slow down depending on whether u wanna cum quickly...

Have a **** a couple of hours ealier, that way you will go like a trooper for ages.

Reply 8

Barny

SamTheMan

coming from the expert!

Ooops, sorry about that, I forgot you knew everything :frown:

Reply 9

Amanda

Lirael Abhorsen

"cock rings"

*Exits thread, shaking her head and laughing slightly...*

Reply 10

pikaboo

Pressing a thumb against the base of the penis delays ejaculation, apparently, while maintaining an orgasm. I've yet to test the effectiveness of this though!

Reply 11

Ron Stoppable

Think like a girl!

For females, sex is full of emotions. So when "practicing", go slowly and feel each stage of arousal (not necessarily physically obvious). Don't do it the teenage boy way and practice for speed.. cos that's what you'll get. Learn good habits.

Reply 12

john !!

have a **** an hour before. isnt it really obvious?

Reply 13

IZZY!

mik1w

have a **** an hour before. isnt it really obvious?

yer thats better and very obvious

Reply 14

Annik

its threads like these that make me love the student room.. *hehe*

Reply 15

Speleo

Pressing a thumb against the base of the penis delays ejaculation, apparently, while maintaining an orgasm. I've yet to test the effectiveness of this though!

I heard that was damaging and unsafe...

Reply 16

pikaboo

Speleo

I heard that was damaging and unsafe...

Dunno, they recommend it when training for tantric sex.

Reply 17

Speleo

Dunno, they recommend it when training for tantric sex.

Isn't that using a muscle down there?
I think I should really find out about this >_<

Reply 18

Lauren Hart

hey, yes, it was me talking about the crudely named "cock rings" lol. They supposedly help in teh same way holding the base of the penis does without the issues of falling on your gf and breaking her nose....

erm, my bf thought he wouldnt last our first time, he didnt manage to cum at all, so dont fret!