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Reply 1

gonna go to the gym

Reply 2

1. Stop obsessing and worrying about whether my boyfriend is going to leave me or not. If he does, he does, there's isn't anything I can do to stop that - except sleep with him, which isn't going to happen.

2. Stay at 7 and a half stone.

3. Speak more Russian.

4. Stop arguing with my boyfriend and my parents.

5. Try to learn to see the positive things in my sister.

6. Work harder; do well in exams; don't get distracted etc.

Reply 3

1. Go to the gym at least 3 times a week.
2. Stop gaining weight/Lose some.
3. Keep on top of school work.

Reply 4

Get fitter.
Be more sociable/make an actual effort with more people.
Be prepared for the inevitable.

Reply 5

Stop spending money as soon as I get it, save save save.
Keep my fitness levels up, look after my skin and eat healthily.
Stop leaving things until last minute.
Dont let people walk all over me, there is a difference between being kind and being a push over.

Reply 6

1. Major one for me would be to confront my problems instead of hoping things will sort themselves out. This links in with another one, to stop doing things to avoid conflict and being more confident about my own stance.
2. Sort out my eating pattern
3. Not letting my grades slip away; keep working hard.

Reply 7

OhNoZo
Stop spending money as soon as I get it, save save save.
Keep my fitness levels up, look after my skin and eat healthily.
Stop leaving things until last minute.
Dont let people walk all over me, there is a difference between being kind and being a push over.


and this.

Reply 8

Gain weight, well muscle.
Stop being so anti-social

That's about it.

Reply 9

Actually start making and keeping friends by going out more and quit making excuses.
Quit using my boyfriend as a bank account- no matter how much he insists!
Complete the Great North Run (or another half) in 2 hours 30 while raising money for charity.

Reply 10

1) Actually be me, rather than who people want me to be/being a shell.
2) Go to the gym 3 times a week...
3) ... Yet maintain my weight at 10 stones
4) If I start relapsing with my ED under the pressure of exams to see my doctor ASAP.
5) Save my money, I'm a bit bored of spending now haha
6) Work bloody hard in school to avoid feeling so stressed
7) Be happy, mainly :biggrin:

Reply 11

russianroullette
1. Stop obsessing and worrying about whether my boyfriend is going to leave me or not. If he does, he does, there's isn't anything I can do to stop that - except sleep with him, which isn't going to happen.

2. Stay at 7 and a half stone.

3. Speak more Russian.

4. Stop arguing with my boyfriend and my parents.

5. Try to learn to see the positive things in my sister.

6. Work harder; do well in exams; don't get distracted etc.


He would still leave you regardless if you slept with him or not :rolleyes:
Why do girls think that if you have sex with someone then they will automatically fall in love with you and stay.

Reply 12

1. find a man who will make me happy, that doesn't emotionally depend on me.
2.work harder
3.be better at keeping in touch with people.

Reply 13

a)Get off Facebook in the evenings when I'm clearly just procrastinating.
b) Work harder. I wont be able to do b without doing a :/
2) Lost weight and get fit.

Reply 14

Lose fat, eat more healthily... ah whatever, I never stick to resolutions anyway.

Reply 15

1) Lose weight and stop my mum bragging that she is now a stone lighter than me. I DO NOT CARE MUM.
2) Stop spending so much money in the amaaaazing shops in Manchester.
3) Stop biting my nails.
4) Do uni work and actually go to most of my lectures.
5) Stop drinking such a horrendous amount, and start remembering nights out for once.
6) Eat looooads healthier.
7) Stop making stupid decisions.
8) Try and like my sister.
9) Stop gossiping.

Woah, I am the queen of stuff I wanna change about myself :/ brilliant.

And 10) Feel more empathy towards my ex boyfriend, who still won't accept that I ended it.

Reply 16

get to 17stone

Reply 17

Get back on the weights, which i have managed to acheive so far...

Reply 18

I decided this morning my resolution would be to keep breathing.
So far I'm doing good.


In all seriousness, I'm moving in a couple of weeks so I want to start a fresh life for myself and do more with my weekends and evenings. Keep the job I've got and start revising for my senior exams next year.

Reply 19

Anonymous
He would still leave you regardless if you slept with him or not
Why do girls think that if you have sex with someone then they will automatically fall in love with you and stay.


I think she means that she's trying to have an adult relationship without any of the adult bits - so in essence just an extra friendship.