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On pulling girls

On this website there are loads of threads about how to pull girls from blokes. I've given a few posts on nightclub pulling such as the whole kissing of the hand thing and other cheesy tactics which seem to bring me success. but i've found this website for those who are interested. its cheesy and American but its got a little guide about how to be a 'player'. like i say, most of it is obviously based on american culture but there are some good pointers on there that u can transfer to your own life. all the stuff on confidence for example which took me 5 years to figure out is written for you.

www.fastseduction.com

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Aint it more fun, if you original on your own?
Reply 2
sanelunatic
Aint it more fun, if you original on your own?


quite agree. i love the chase and i love thinking of new and individual ways to pull different women, but this site just seemed to give some advice whcih is pretty key.
Reply 3
hell i'll take all the help i can get :smile:
Reply 4
This is sad. :frown:
Reply 5
my god its so complicated!!!!!!!!

dutch courage all the way i say!
Reply 6
zhivago
This is sad. :frown:

very, thats why i'm here :smile:
Reply 7
zhivago
This is sad. :frown:


bothered. if it gets blokes to actually realise that to pull girls they need to speak to them, then surely it's anything but.
Reply 8
i dont get why you need to learn techniques. Surely you should just be confident but spontaneous :confused:
Oh dear, where are we headed when romanticism and chivalry are disappearing to be replaced by clinical scenarios and shared tactical approaches to winning hearts.

What’s more worrying is that people can justify such a forgery easily without seeing that they are treating women like objects to be won through manipulation and that they converse in order to reach their goals instead of conversing for genuine interest. It’s a travesty that “pick-up artists” even exist…

Lol! Sorry about that, I just can’t keep my romantic nature in sometimes and go too far in assuming the worst of intentions… *sigh*

Hope I haven’t irritated anyone, I have a habit of living in fairy tales. :rolleyes: :redface:
Reply 10
It's like this from both guys and girls.

Whilst the idea to some seems fun and exciting, it's okay - but if you really do want to find someone that may be serious then trying different things that aren't you won't work I reckon.

I dunno, from what I've read from people quoting stuff from these guides, I reckon its far to general. It maybe good for a "quickie" but if you're looking for something pretty long term and possibly more meaningful then there has to be something between two people beyond the looks/charm - interests, tastes, experiences.

Personally I reckon talking, being nice and polite with a hint of flirting goes a long way than dancing about, rolling on the floor and saying a bunch of stuff they've heard a million and one times before - well, unless that floats his/her boat.
Reply 11
jbcubed3
It's like this from both guys and girls.

Whilst the idea to some seems fun and exciting, it's okay - but if you really do want to find someone that may be serious then trying different things that aren't you won't work I reckon.

I dunno, from what I've read from people quoting stuff from these guides, I reckon its far to general. It maybe good for a "quickie" but if you're looking for something pretty long term and possibly more meaningful then there has to be something between two people beyond the looks/charm - interests, tastes, experiences.

Personally I reckon talking, being nice and polite with a hint of flirting goes a long way than dancing about, rolling on the floor and saying a bunch of stuff they've heard a million and one times before - well, unless that floats his/her boat.


eloquent...
Reply 12
eloquent...


Sorry to break this thread, but I don't know what you mean.
Aaa just be natural about it I'm pretty sure they can tell when you're being fake
Reply 14
if you arent confident you cant just "learn".. it takes time (like you said 5 years)
Reply 15
Cup-and-Saucer


Hope I haven’t irritated anyone, I have a habit of living in fairy tales. :rolleyes: :redface:


No worries.You are not the only one :p: .In which fairy tales do you live?
I for one prefer to live in the world of 1940s Hollywood films...a trifle more exciting :biggrin: .
cambridgemuscle
On this website there are loads of threads about how to pull girls from blokes. I've given a few posts on nightclub pulling such as the whole kissing of the hand thing and other cheesy tactics which seem to bring me success. but i've found this website for those who are interested. its cheesy and American but its got a little guide about how to be a 'player'. like i say, most of it is obviously based on american culture but there are some good pointers on there that u can transfer to your own life. all the stuff on confidence for example which took me 5 years to figure out is written for you.

www.fastseduction.com


Americans :rolleyes:
Reply 17
When I like a guy, I'm the one pulling the strings. Soon enough, I'm also pulling the guy :wink:

Tips from a girl: with the catalyst of lots of alcohol, try the following:
Get her on her own, and have a drunken talk about nothing. At a handy break in conversation, move in
Try to steal some item of jewellery or something fun she has in a playful manner. This will ensure physical contact and possibly drunken wrestling
My fave...say hi and make your move straight away :biggrin:
Reply 18
The guide thing is too complex and general.

Methinks lots of beer and hoping for random encounter leading to conversation is probably best tactics :smile:
Wow, a site for "pulling" girls. :rolleyes: In my view that's a whole new level (a lower level!) to which people have managed to stoop. If a girl wanted to be "pulled" I am pretty certain she'd at the very least want to be hit on by a guy who knew how to act in a mature way and not like a wet flannel without having to read up on the internet about it.

Besides, I think the majority of girls would be happier with a guy who thinks with his head and not his knob. I mean look at this: "I'm saying be the guy who gets laid. That guy is confident that he's going to get laid, because he knows he's an alpha male" or worse still, "dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with". It's a load of macho sexist pseudo-psychobabble bull****.

Frankly for anyone who wants to date/pull a girl this isn't the place to go. As cliche as it might sound I think you'd be better off being yourself than trying to remember a load of unhelpful internet tips.