internet dating site dillema

I think "nostringscontacts" means what it says. Internet relationships seldom work out. Maybe she should go looking for a non cyber bf.

Reply 3

OP

he lives in the same town and they've been together for about a month and a half with no problems we are both satisfied he prob isnt meeting these women but shes upset he would still look at messages,

they didnt meet on that site its a different one that he was obviously signed up to

Reply 4

trigger

he lives in the same town and they've been together for about a month and a half with no problems we are both satisfied he prob isnt meeting these women but shes upset he would still look at messages,

they didnt meet on that site its a different one that he was obviously signed up to

Maybe he has the wrong end of the stick, maybe he thinks that the relationship is casual, like really casual

Or maybe hes just a cheating git, maybe he looks at messages from random friends, maybe he only looks at messages hoping to see some other woman have messaged him to boost his ego, or maybe he isnt as sincere as your friend initially thought..

Reply 5

Herleif

maybe you shouldnt be going through his messages...

Reply 6

Herleif Arkadios

maybe you shouldnt be going through his messages...

Maybe you're right.

Reply 7

OP

hmmm perhaps. I think they know that they are exclusive......though they are not together everyday.

Reply 8

OP

Herleif Arkadios

maybe you shouldnt be going through his messages...

it wasnt me it was her and it wasnt messages she clicked on the bar at the top of the page...the history one and it was there, she hasnt read the messages if he has any

Reply 9

trigger

it wasnt me it was her and it wasnt messages she clicked on the bar at the top of the page...the history one and it was there, she hasnt read the messages if he has any

Well to save a lot of tension maybe she should just go all the way and read the damn messages, to find out whether hes messaging other people, anyway to be honest its a bloody people finder, messaging site, hes never going to stop getting and sending messages just because hes seeing someone.

Reply 10

OP

Markus

Well to save a lot of tension maybe she should just go all the way and read the damn messages, to find out whether hes messaging other people, anyway to be honest its a bloody people finder, messaging site, hes never going to stop getting and sending messages just because hes seeing someone.

well i thougth that and she agreed i think it was the type of site that upset her more then the fact he was still looking at the sites if it was a normal one i dont think she would have minded so much

Reply 11

trigger

well i thougth that and she agreed i think it was the type of site that upset her more then the fact he was still looking at the sites if it was a normal one i dont think she would have minded so much

But both sites are exactly the same, so what difference does it make?

Reply 12

OP

well one is peple meeting up just for sex and the other is for meeting potential partners id say there was a huge difference

Reply 13

trigger

well one is peple meeting up just for sex and the other is for meeting potential partners id say there was a huge difference

Not really, he could be just as insincere using both those sites.

Reply 14

OP

well i suppose so. so what shall i tell her to do?

Reply 15

Amlea

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Cyber relationships don't work. Trust me i was in one once and i will never go into one again.

Reply 16

trigger

well i suppose so. so what shall i tell her to do?

You'll think of something at the time, dont need to plan out.

Reply 17

OP

Amlea

Cyber relationships don't work. Trust me i was in one once and i will never go into one again.

they do meet each other like i saud they live about 20mins from each other

Reply 18

Amlea

Cyber relationships don't work. Trust me i was in one once and i will never go into one again.

Meeting people off the net is okay, having a proper "relationship" (not sure youl could really call if that but whatever") but meeting up is the thing that determines whether its a relationship or not.

Reply 19

OP