hey going on the internet themed thing

this guy i know from msn, although he's like a friend's friend kind of thing seems really to keen to meet up and keeps asking in a really imploring manner if i will accompany him to the cinema. to be honest i don't really want to go to the cinema with a guy i've never met -esp on my own. i've explained this to him but he keeps saying he has no one to go with so i'm feeling a bit guilty and would feel harsh blocking him. he also really fancies my friend (despite never having met her either) and keeps asking me to find out info and to know about her feelings etc. i know shes not interested in him but i don't want to be so blunt with him either. he's a nice enough guy but saying that, i don't really wish to meet up with him. i know in the scale of dilemmas it's pretty minor, but hey any input is appreciated :cool:

Stay. Away. :>.<:

Kavanne

Stay. Away. :>.<:

tbh he sounds desperate

Reply 3

xXMessedUpXx

15

tell him your not interested, if he doesn't respect that and keeps bugging you he's nothing more than a pest and deserves to be blocked. After a very bad experiece of meeting someone off the net, i'm really wary about it, just please be careful. if you went then insist on taking a friend, meet in a public place and make sure someone knows where you are. sorry i know you've heard it all ebfore but it could make all the difference...

Reply 4

Vixen

12

Lirael Abhorsen

this guy i know from msn, although he's like a friend's friend kind of thing seems really to keen to meet up and keeps asking in a really imploring manner if i will accompany him to the cinema. to be honest i don't really want to go to the cinema with a guy i've never met -esp on my own. i've explained this to him but he keeps saying he has no one to go with so i'm feeling a bit guilty and would feel harsh blocking him. he also really fancies my friend (despite never having met her either) and keeps asking me to find out info and to know about her feelings etc. i know shes not interested in him but i don't want to be so blunt with him either. he's a nice enough guy but saying that, i don't really wish to meet up with him. i know in the scale of dilemmas it's pretty minor, but hey any input is appreciated :cool:

One word for you.....block :smile:

Reply 5

hippieglitter

19

If he seems ok and not like some psycho go with him but not on your own take a protective friend.

Reply 6

Lirael Abhorsen

OP

1

Lol... "one word .. block". well i don't doubt his integrity - he knew one of my best friend's bro's from school, but yes i did block him for the moment. i know it does sound a bit desperate although saying that there was more pressure to go because it did, i wouldn't mind meeting him if it was with a bunch of other people. also thing is he's 2 yrs below me and sometimes hints at us going out kind of thing which i don't want him to expect as its not something i'd wish to pursue.

Reply 7

Lirael Abhorsen

OP

1

none of my friends want to see him. i only vaguely half agreed as i felt sorry for him going on his own.

Reply 8

hulachick15

10

Lirael Abhorsen

this guy i know from msn, although he's like a friend's friend kind of thing seems really to keen to meet up and keeps asking in a really imploring manner if i will accompany him to the cinema. to be honest i don't really want to go to the cinema with a guy i've never met -esp on my own. i've explained this to him but he keeps saying he has no one to go with so i'm feeling a bit guilty and would feel harsh blocking him. he also really fancies my friend (despite never having met her either) and keeps asking me to find out info and to know about her feelings etc. i know shes not interested in him but i don't want to be so blunt with him either. he's a nice enough guy but saying that, i don't really wish to meet up with him. i know in the scale of dilemmas it's pretty minor, but hey any input is appreciated :cool:

Is he called steve by any chance??

Reply 9

Amlea

1

I would seriously block him if he carries on pestering you.

Reply 10

Wild Thing

11

Go out with him to the cinema...what is the harm in that :rolleyes:

Reply 11

flick

If the cinema sounds too weird, why don't you give him a chance by just going out for a drink.

Reply 12

Feefifofum

16

If you don't feel comfortable meeting up with this guy, then don't, simple as that. It wouldn't matter whether you knew him in "real life" or just from MSN, if you don't want to meet up with him then you shouldn't feel pressurised inrto doing so. However, this is possibly more important with someone that you do not really know - I would seriously stay away. You don't know how this person may act around you, and if he is making you feel uncomfortable now he may do the same face to face, where you cannot simply go offline or block him.

Reply 13

adamu

i dont wana hear about you on the news in a few weeks time.. stay away

hey going on the internet themed thing

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