This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

Is my boyfriend gay...?

Scroll to see replies

Crosses one leg over the other when he sits? That's a sure sign. Like this guy, he does that, and he's certainly more than a little queer:

http://www.liveabovemediocrity.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/obamacl.jpg

Oh wait. You're an idiot.

Reply 41

Anonymous #1

Reflexive

oh sh*t! i thought u meant bent the arm holding the tea. but i held it with my right, and did that with my left, and i instantly felt 100% bent

I didn't say he holds his tea in a homosexual way.

CAMP WAY is what I said.

Reply 42

Anonymous #1

Another issue is forgot to mention.. my boyfriend wears makeup to cover his under eye circles.. I feel that's just too effeminate!

Reply 43

LabyrinthWonder

Just talk to him about it. He may not be gay per-se...

Reply 44

Stray_talk

So guys aren't allowed to have close guy mates? okaay.
And sitting in a certain manner instantly means he's gay...seriously?

Do you even like this guy because from what I've read at the moment you just luuurve to pick holes in the poor dude.
My question would - why are you even with him?

Reply 45

Anonymous #1

Stray_talk

It's basically occurred because of the way he puts his friend before me.. so I sort of added all the other things together... his makeup wearing, campness and the way he talks about his male best mate all the time...

Reply 46

Mr_Deeds

Anonymous

I didn't say he holds his tea in a homosexual way.

CAMP WAY is what I said.

This is what your boyfriend is, OP, not homosexual. Plenty of straight men cross their legs and plenty more wear scarves. By the same token, there are plenty of gay men who don't cross their legs, wear scarves or have best male friends. :smile:

Reply 47

Anonymous #2

Can a guy really wear make up and not be a little bit gay

Reply 48

Jingers

Reflexive

I'm just wondering how you hold a cup of tea homosexually.

With a willy in your bum?

Reply 49

Anonymous #1

Mr_Deeds

..
but the makeup.. and wearing his mum's straw hat and her scarf...

Reply 50

Stray_talk

Anonymous

Then maybe that's the issue you need to be talking to him about, not how he sits...
And maybe he's just a little bit camp and not gay.

Just talk to him, for goodness sake.

Reply 51

maxfire

Anonymous

I don't know, are you? My boyfriend has told me that his friend who is on a work placement in another City, visits home every weekend to see him. Do you do that too?

Nah, I see him at college.

Reply 52

Reflexive

Anonymous

I didn't say he holds his tea in a homosexual way.

CAMP WAY is what I said.

sorry anon I'm only messing :wink:

Reply 53

Tuppenny

You are just going to have to ask him OP - otherwise it'll just drive you up the wall wondering about it.

Also, the replies to this are hilarious, I'm giving imaginary rep to everyone :biggrin:

Reply 54

Mr_Deeds

Anonymous

..
but the makeup.. and wearing his mum's straw hat and her scarf...

You need detach in your mind the connection between being camp and being gay. There are plenty of straight guys who are massively camp and plenty of gay men who are really masculine (and who, might I add, wouldn't know what to do with make-up). Yes, your boyfriend has a close male mate but don't most guys? :smile:

Reply 55

Salome2

Reflexive

I'm just wondering how you hold a cup of tea homosexually.

That was my question! :yep:

Reply 56

kittykat555

aw he sounds incredibly sweet : ) you should think yourself lucky to have a sensitive boyfriend who cares about his appearence, lots of other girls would. and the campest boy i know is also the most attractive, the most successful with girls and the most assured in his sexuality.
but if you just dont like the way he is, thats got zero to do with his sexuality.