I'm 18 now, and I don't drink, don't smoke don't take drugs. I don't like sex outside of relationships. People keep telling me to lighten up but I'm perfectly happy like this. Maybe part of it is rebelling against the gay promiscuous party boy stereotype, but it just doesn't sit right with me.
It just gets me down when people think I'm boring because of these things. I'm not, I have fun with my friends (and I assume they do too, or they wouldn't be talking to me after all these years, would they?) and I can find people to date and stuff. Is there an expectation for guys to be sexually permissive?
Do they actually matter?