WTF. Half brothers/sister

I know the feeling. I didn't realise until I was 14 as my dad has never really been part of my life, but I have two half sisters who are a little bit younger than me. It is a real shock to the system I think!
Are they half sister/brother or step?

yeah sorry i meant half lol. it is def a shock to the system! what did you do? did you get in touch with them? i mean it makes sense right?

Are they half- or step-siblings? They're half if they're your father's biological children, step if they're not. I wouldn't really say in either case that you're "obliged" to have a relationship with any of them though, it's your choice really . I probably wouldn't, but that's just me. Is there any way you can get in contact with them without seeing your Dad too?

I did yes. I wasn't in contact with my father at that point but I did get in touch at a later date. I still havn't met my sisters, but thats because they don't really want to meet me - they see me as the illigitimate child of him.
His wife is angry he ever got my mum pregnant. Not easy at all.
But I'm glad we are in touch as it makes me feel relieved that everything is out in the open. They did not know of my existance for 12 years.

Same story i kinda lost contact with my real dad when i was about 11 ish, im now 19 almost 20 i knew my younger brothers and sisters and step brother and sister. we were all too young to really connect and now facebook has been invented myyounger half sister got in contact along with my younger half brother and step mum, and to be honest i really dont want anything to do with them. i know this sounds harsh but i just dont want that complication. When my half sister suggests meeting up i make excuses but i am friendly online so she doesnt know my true feelings, i just honestly dont want the confusion etc.

Its up to you what you do, if they want to see you then meet up see where it goes etc if it doesnt work out just keep in small contact through email or something.

Nonetheless, you should try to get to know them because you might learn to love them as your real bro and sis one day :/

this really bugs me, they are his real brothers and sisters :\ i have a half sister and another on the way, but they're my sisters. i suppose it is easier if you know them from the beginning though :\.

OP- do what you think is going to make you happy. If you don't get in touch with them now- you could always do it at a later date, maybe then your dad wouldn't need to be involved?

You have to find out who they are so you won't fall in love with them!

if you dont mind me saying, his wife seems a right cow!
hmm.. well atleast you get on okay with your dad now.

OP- do what you think is going to make you happy. If you don't get in touch with them now- you could always do it at a later date, maybe then your dad wouldn't need to be involved?

basically my parents got divorced years ago. my dad is a total prick, so i have never wanted anything to do with him, and have not seen him for around 10 years. i recently found out he got remarried and now i have 2 half-brothers and a half-sister... i mean, to me this is crazy. i sorta feel like i should have a relationship with my step family? we are related after all.. but i dont wanna see ma dad again tho. what would you lot do???

sorry i meant half* not step