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Why is it less acceptable for your bf to check out your friends than a randomer? watch

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    It seems from people's responses on this forum that if their boyfriend glances at hot women in the street, it's not a problem. But if it's one of your good friends, it suddenly becomes an issue and he's doing something wrong. What's the problem here?
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    They think that if it's a friend that it could lead to cheating. Girls need to be more secure tbh if they think like that.
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    I think the general consensus would be they can trust their friends.
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    Just more of a personal checking out because presumably he knows her too I guess.
    Surely if your girlfriend started oggling up your best friend it would anoy you more than some person on the street or a TV star or something?
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    No. It's because it is embarrassing! And not to mention pervy.
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    I tell my bf if I think my friends are pretty.
    Prettyness should always be appreciated.

    I'm really not the jealous type.
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    Because its unlikely that he'll see the random woman on the street again. Whereas with friends, its likely that he'll see them quite a bit.
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    It's more likely that a guy will cheat on the friends (who he may have regular contact/same social circle with) than the random girls in public who he will probably ever see again.

    Besides, girls just don't trust other girls like us guys. There's a reason why us guys have a guys' code "bros before ****" and girls just think "***** he's mine now :mad:"

    How's that for a generalisation :borat:
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    for me its because

    if its a stranger hes probably not going to see her again but if its a mate he would see her every time we all went out, would be talking to her, spending time with her etc and i would hate that but if it was someone walking past once shes gone thats it, its highly unlikely he will bump into her again or talk to her
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    my girl has some hot friends, not my fault, sometimes i think about boning some of them
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    i think like other people have mentioned that he will never see those on the street again ...ure friends he will prob c alot of...but try not to get to worked up cos it could destroy ure relationship and if ure really jealous or concerned just tell him u dont like it x
 
 
 
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