Have you ever really wondered why girls can be cruel to you? Maybe it's actually your fault comming across as insecure. And you keep repeating that you are special because you are nice and caring to girls. Why in the hell would you even care for a girl if she doesnt care for you? By being nice and caring in the beginning it can come acoss as " I will be nice to you in exchange you will...." in other words needy (Chris Rock explained it - when a guy says oh you look beautiful, for the women it's like "want some ****?"). So I wouldn't be surprised why to some women it could seem like you only want to get in their pants. Oh and btw the so called nice guys a lot of times hide more stuff then bad boys.
I wont settle for anything else!