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    I have some moles on my back that Im worried about Ive been to the gp and he said they look ok for now but if they change in size/shape or go irregular then go back. Ive asked my boyfriend a few times to look at them for me to see if they changed but he just refuses and once told me to p*** off cause he doesn't like me mentioning them and walked out I don't mither him or anything its just his attitude that im bothered about. Guys would you do this for a gf or was I out of order asking:confused:
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    lmao. Your boyfriend's a ****, or has a troubled past, littered with moles.
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    Erm... okay he has serious issues then doesnt he - issues that may require him to get a doctor himself.
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    He's being a git
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    Is he on his period or something?
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    Awww :jumphug: That's really harsh. Maybe he's just not 100% comfortable with you, how long have you been together?

    Or maybe it's a sore point, did/does he know anyone that's got/had cancer? It seems like a massive overreaction, unless there's something else behind it.
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    That's a bit mean of him. Maybe he's squeamish or something? Meh, even so, he's your boyfriend and shouldn't have a problem if it's to do with your health, tbh. He sounds like he has issues.
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Awww :jumphug: That's really harsh. Maybe he's just not 100% comfortable with you, how long have you been together?

    Or maybe it's a sore point, did/does he know anyone that's got/had cancer? It seems like a massive overreaction, unless there's something else behind it.
    I know he doesn't like the idea of the thought of giving care/affection when he's not in the mood he says it embarrases him and makes him feel uncomfortable he's not normal lol everyone knows that even his family its just how he is but we have been together for nearly 2 years. I just have a mental bf I guess!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have some moles on my back that Im worried about Ive been to the gp and he said they look ok for now but if they change in size/shape or go irregular then go back. Ive asked my boyfriend a few times to look at them for me to see if they changed but he just refuses and once told me to p*** off cause he doesn't like me mentioning them and walked out I don't mither him or anything its just his attitude that im bothered about. Guys would you do this for a gf or was I out of order asking:confused:
    Your guy sounds like a bit of a **** tbh - okay, he might not like the look of moles (I check my bf's, they creep the hell out of me lol!), but no need to react like that.
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    maybe he doesn't want the responsibility?

    The only one that checks my potential baby cancer is me. I wouldn't want to staff that out to someone.

    Just go to the doctors regularly and have them checked that actually can tell.
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    maybe he doesn't want the responsibility?

    The only one that checks my potential baby cancer is me. I wouldn't want to staff that out to someone.

    Just go to the doctors regularly and have them checked that actually can tell.
    yea probably not
 
 
 
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