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    Hi All,

    Right I only have a couple of minutes do this in.
    Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. we met at uni and things were great at first. however now we hardly spend anytime together and he doesnt do anything about it. Im always the one going over to his because he doesnt like the people i live with. he says he loves me and that he doesnt want to be with anyone else but lately when we are together he spends his time on FB and msn talking to his course friends (all female). im starting to feel like he is only with me for the sake of having a girlfriend.

    Lately ive been thinking that a break from each other would be good and it may make him wake up or something? Am i overreacting ?

    thanx in advance
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    I think you should speak to him about it.
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    ive tired twice already but he gets all funny about it and says he doesnt understand where this is all coming from. and says he will try harder next time :\
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    talk to him first tell him how you feel and if nothing happens then go on a break from each other or end it
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    If you've talked to him and things havent changed, a break would probably be good for both of you to get some perspective.
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    The fact that you are on here unhappy and wanting a break I think speaks volumes. If you're not happy, speak to him. If you're still not happy, go find someone else!
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    i know :\ its hard tho cause when im with him i just forget everything and couldnt be happier. And i just think ill wait and see if it gets better. Im meeting him tonight

    thank you for the advice!
 
 
 
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