I had to come on here and have a bit of a rant about myself, after what's just happened in a bar tonight!
I'm in my mid 20's, and fairly decent looking, friendly with a good social life etc. However I'm totally rubbish with women, and don't know what to do to change. I just can't seem to get the balls to seal the deal - an example is tonight, I started chatting to this pretty girl sat near me in this bar, got on well with her etc. But when I went to leave with my mates, I bottled asking for her number. And I always do this - I always lose all confidence when the moment comes to make a move, and it's basically ruining my life. I think of all the girls I never made a move on, who could have been the loves of my life - it's driving me crazy!!!
Any ideas people!!
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- Thread Starter
- 14-01-2010 23:42
- 15-01-2010 15:24
stop being such a tit and man up!! if you cant even gather up the courage to ask the girl out then you deserve to be single. I dont understand where your problem is! you sound confident in talking to the girls if they wernt into you they wouldnt talk to you, they wouldnt waste their time, next situation when this pops up ask their number, your scared of being rejected but you shouldnt. There are plenty more girls out there and just because one might not want you doesnt mean that you the hunchback of natrodam. If you get rejected pick yourself back up and get back on that horse, girls prefer men that can ask them women like to be chased. Now stop being so childish and ask the next girl for her number!!!!
- 15-01-2010 15:28
Give one of your friends £50, and tell him to only give it back when you come back with a number.
- 15-01-2010 15:29
You've got nothing to lose - if she says no then its not meant to be and your mates won't care because it happens to us all. Just do it!
- 15-01-2010 15:34
My advice would be, make a move