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    (Original post by Katherineeee.)
    Yeaah i do
    I think that's really brave of you tbh lol. I wouldn't be able to invite anyone like that. And im pretty sure you wouldn't scare him off and that he will get to like you. Obviously, act yourself woo.


    hmm thanks my friend sorta asked partly for me :P i dunno if he likes me like that though - great if he does but if not i don't want to be well like lead on. i will try to make a go of it - bit hard when you're in a silent cinema (other than the film)...
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    (Original post by mr eko)
    Speaking as a shy guy, just start the conversation and be friendly. If he likes you he'll start opening up as he gets to know you.
    Pretty much. I think the whole idea is that if he's shy, he won't approach you but if he likes you then I can guarantee you he will be happy as hell if you approach him yourself.
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    (Original post by tenement_funster)
    so i like this person but he's super shy and i really don't know what to say to him! i am truely hopeless!

    HELP PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
    Just talk to him, slowly, a bit at a time. Youll probably find hes quite outgoing when hes on his own or a bit more comfortable with you.
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    (Original post by tenement_funster)
    hmm thanks my friend sorta asked partly for me :P i dunno if he likes me like that though - great if he does but if not i don't want to be well like lead on. i will try to make a go of it - bit hard when you're in a silent cinema (other than the film)...
    aw, don't say that.. you never know, he could really like you. But because he's so shy, he may not show it? OH i can kinda help you on this one, i mean.. i met a boy for the first time by myself a few months ago and we went to watch a film just kind of.. move closely towards him, so your shoulders are touching.. if you get me. that's what i did and he did the same haha. we still talked through the film abit though .. also, just keep speaking to him, then he may feel comfortable and more confident with you at the end of the day
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    Maybe he seems shy because he doesn't talk/engage with others much? It's possible that he doesn't want a girlfriend.
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    this is exactly what i wanna know...i'm very chatty so i don't wanna intimidate him..!
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    Make sure your alone it would make him feel more comfortable i guess. I'm quite shy but I would much rather be approached when im on my own! :yes:
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    put ur hand a little bit near his wheener, oh boy will his shyness end
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    I agree with HumanNature. I would be happy for a girl to come up to me and start conversation but if I was with friends that would add pressure.
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    Just smile nicely at him. If a girl smiled at me, I'd know what it means.





    A bang-bang of course :p:
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    with front bum exposed.
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    (Original post by HumanNature1992)
    Make sure your alone it would make him feel more comfortable i guess. I'm quite shy but I would much rather be approached when im on my own! :yes:

    Very much so, nothing worse than a load of girls coming at you all at once.... if you're shy.
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    Me too!!! I just started talking to him about school and stuff, once he said he enjoys my company :woo: . It was hard at first bcause he didn't talk back mich but he opened up to me. I haven't seen him since the last week before Christmas holidays
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    Personally I think it's time. Rushing things and trying lots of things immediately might not work, and just getting an 'air' of comfort between you is the most important. At least that's the most important to someone, like me, who has a similar personality.
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    (Original post by ChrisBan)
    Very much so, nothing worse than a load of girls coming at you all at once.... if you're shy.
    Awsome you're canadian !!:eek: ..I love canada been there loads wanna live their one day. Where abouts from canada are you from?
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    (Original post by HumanNature1992)
    Awsome you're canadian !!:eek: ..I love canada been there loads wanna live their one day. Where abouts from canada are you from?
    I'm not Canadian.... very much like you, hoping to get out there after I've finished my degree!
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    (Original post by ChrisBan)
    I'm not Canadian.... very much like you, hoping to get out there after I've finished my degree!
    Fooled me darn it!!
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    (Original post by Katherineeee.)
    aw, don't say that.. you never know, he could really like you. But because he's so shy, he may not show it? OH i can kinda help you on this one, i mean.. i met a boy for the first time by myself a few months ago and we went to watch a film just kind of.. move closely towards him, so your shoulders are touching.. if you get me. that's what i did and he did the same haha. we still talked through the film abit though .. also, just keep speaking to him, then he may feel comfortable and more confident with you at the end of the day


    aww thanks i will try that!!! will it be weird cos we're going as a group? x
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    (Original post by tenement_funster)
    so i like this person but he's super shy and i really don't know what to say to him! i am truely hopeless!

    HELP PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
    Hi, my name is xxx and I would like you to do me over a kitchen counter.
 
 
 
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