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    I'm not really too friendly with my corridor, and even when I do go out with them, I usually end up by myself. They kind of just push me out or ignore me.
    I then usually end up bumping into people I know, or just pulling and going back to theirs/mine.

    Anyway, it's either me going out alone now, or just sitting in every night alone. Although I do have friends on campus, they're all from different bits, so there's no single group I could get into.

    Anyway, if you saw a girl alone out clubbing, would you find it weird and stay away from her?
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    to be honest I'd like to see a girl on her own as I'd feel more confident talking to her as normally I'm too nervous. However, a girl on her own in the night can always be dangerous as you are probably aware.

    However, I have seen some girls who appear to be alone in clubs at times.
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    no.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    Anyway, if you saw a girl alone out clubbing, would you find it weird and stay away from her?
    Start the van now.
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    the thing is, its alot easier to approach someone who is on there own, such as say hi can i buy you a drink ect... than if they are in a group. that is from the male point of view btw..

    and of course safety would probably be an issue if you were travelling alone..
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    I wouldn't ever go out alone, mostly to do with safety, and my mum and dad definitely wouldn't let me cause of that! Besides it would be really boring!
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    It won't be as much fun as goign out with freinds but better than sitting in your room by yourself. I nearly always end up loosing my mates at some point when out and end up talking with other random people or seing other people out i know. If your on your own there's probably more chance guys feel less intimidated to go and approach you aswell, I doub't you would be alone for much of the night.
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    If it was just heading to the student union, where it's bound to be pretty safe, would that be less weird?
    Also, I don't particularly enjoy clubbing as such, but I just feel very lonely and want some company. I'm also kind of worried that if I'm going out and just end up pulling I'm going to look like a slut.
    I kissed one boy last week and one of my hallmates called me a slut in front of lots of people, which was very hurtful.
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    I've been to a gig on my own before, and it was just really awkward. I bumped into a couple of way younger girls I knew there, but they didn't really talk too much. Felt like a bit of a **** if I'm honest. I wouldn't do it again.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If it was just heading to the student union, where it's bound to be pretty safe, would that be less weird?
    Also, I don't particularly enjoy clubbing as such, but I just feel very lonely and want some company. I'm also kind of worried that if I'm going out and just end up pulling I'm going to look like a slut.
    I kissed one boy last week and one of my hallmates called me a slut in front of lots of people, which was very hurtful.
    go for it, your hallmates are idiots - mine were, ignore them.
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    TBH that does not sound safe...
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    I'd stay at home plotting revenge on my hall mate. But then i'm also probably not the best person to ask about this kinda thing...
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    I'd feel really self-conscious going out by myself.
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    Its can be boring on your own, but if your bored anyway then why not
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    I'd have no problem doing that. Great way to meet new people, and if it's only the student union no problem.
 
 
 
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