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    Okay I was meant to be going out tonight with a few of my friends, I've since changed my mind now though, since I found out other people were going that I don't like. One of them used to be my best friend, turned ***** and the other I was really good friends with until I was about 13 but we grew apart, I've seen her a few time since then but she was a bit weird with me. My friends band is also playing tonight - it's sold out but they're going out later to the same place. Another girl is going that I'm not really friends with, I've only spoken to her briefly about 5 years ago, lol. My two 'friends' (we've had a few up and downs tbh) sometimes ignore me when they're with these people.

    My other friends aren't going out tonight.

    I was looking forward to it but I think i'll just feel really awkward and out of it...

    Would you go?
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    If you're not gonna be happy, just don't go
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    No, if you don't like them, you don't like them. It's their problem if they want to make a deal out of it.
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    (Original post by TheMeister)
    No, if you don't like them, you don't like them. It's their problem if they want to make a deal out of it.
    Yeahh, one of my friend says I'm being childish for not going so I was just wondering what other people thought
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    Is it that big of a deal? lol do whatever
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    Its your life pepole don't own you? If you know that you're not going to be comfortable or happy then I wouldnt put yoruself through that to be honest whats the point?
    I went thru years of that at school - doing things going out with people i didnt want to, and i just snapped one day and said enough
    its not illegal to say no and just not do it xxx
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    It's up to you surely, if you ain't comfortable then don't go, simples.
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    Just do what you want. I think it's a bit immature to carry grudges, especially over years, but if they do so, you probably wouldn't enjoy going out with them, even if you didn't (bear a grudge that is).
 
 
 
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