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Do you feel OK sleeping in the same bed your bf/gf and their ex slept in? Or do you watch

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    Do you feel OK sleeping in the same bed your partner and their ex slept (had sex) in?
    Or do you buy a new bed?
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    i would make him buy a new bed
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    Wow, you've got issues.

    It's just a bed.
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    I would buy a new bed, but that's because I wouldn't ever want to remember my ex at all, I got a new one the week after I dumped him! If your OK with it fine, I'm not though, hence why I got a new one
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    Just a bed. I could understand though, if you were like... married.
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    (Original post by Reue)
    Wow, you've got issues.

    It's just a bed.
    What about a new mattress?
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    As long as the sheets are clean, yes.
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    I'm sure they wouldnt make you sleep in the same *** stained sheets. If you need to get a new bed, you have issues.
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    The thought hadn't even crossed my mind until this thread.

    Now it's crossed my mind : Yes I would feel OK.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What about a new mattress?
    Turn it over.
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    My ex was really iffy that I'd not changed my sheets since I'd split up with the guy before him haha. I don't really mind tbh.
    As long as I mark it as my own after, if you get what I mean
    And I don't mean peeing all over the bed haha.
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    So long as the sheets have been changed since they slept there..... :dontknow:
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    (Original post by Reue)
    Turn it over.
    What if there's a pee stain on the underside and a *** stain on the top side.
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    I would feel fine as long as the sheets had been washed.
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    Actually I find it a little strange when I think about it. I would never demand that someone should buy a new bed over it, but I do find the fact that we have sex in the same bed as he and his ex did a little weird. So I just try not to think about it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What if there's a pee stain on the underside and a *** stain on the top side.
    :facepalm:
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    It's never even occurred to me tbh.
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    If I had to replace the bed everytime I break up with a girl I'd have gone through a whole Dreams warehouse by now :laugh:
    Na, it's just a bed and besides I hardly have sex on my own bed it creeps me out having others on it...I can't sleep after :erm: psychological OCD issues :sigh:
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    (Original post by Lizia)
    Can you blame him?! That either means you jump into bed with a new guy pretty quickly, or you're filthy and don't change the sheets much. Either way, I don't blame him for being "iffy".
    Lol it's not even like that either. It was like, his first visit over to mine, like 3 months down the line. And he completely hated my ex. Completely clashed.

    And ofcourse I'd changed my sheets! It's not as if me and him even did anything then anyway. I ditched him soon after, so it didnt really matter
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    It has crossed my mind 'oh, he's been in this bed' but at the end of the day, a bed is a bed, chances are the sheets have been cleaned since then. Jeez, if people were this anal and neurotic about everything we'd never get anything done.
 
 
 
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