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    I've liked this guy for a while now. We don't know each other very well but he's a friend of a close mate of mine. When I first met him, my friend told me that he thought I was attractive and really nice but I was in a serious relationship at the time. I split up with my ex 3 months ago and I really want to tell this guy that the feeling is mutual and to ask him out on a date. The problem is, I've never said this to a guy before as I've always been the pursued not the persuer. I need help :confused:
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    If it helps you not the only one that wishes she could ask guys out too!
    Chin Up
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    Dont tell him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Dont tell him
    How does this help?
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    something I'd also like to know the answer to :/
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    Just ask him out. If he thinks you're attractive he will hardly say no. And if you pursue someone you are the pursuer not the persuee :fyi:
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    Blow job?
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    (Original post by Knocking One Out)
    Blow job?
    LMAOO...
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    Just ask him if he wants to go shopping or something with you, and then he might ask you out
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    I find it weird that girls can't ask guys out, why the hell not
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    (Original post by rockrunride)
    And if you pursue someone you are the pursuer not the persuee :fyi:
    I know this, the 'e' key is next to the 'r' on the keyboard though
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    (Original post by Knocking One Out)
    Blow job?
    Is that the way to a guy's heart?
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    (Original post by gingergooner)
    I find it weird that girls can't ask guys out, why the hell not
    Generally we're not used to asking them out, so when we have to we don't have a clue
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    (Original post by sticky_toffee)
    Is that the way to a guy's heart?
    LOL don't do that, he'll just think you're easy and it'll just end up being about the physical.

    If you actually want to be in a relationship with this guy, tell him you like him and by the sound of it, it's likely that he'll ask you out.
    Just go for it, you only live once =].
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    (Original post by sticky_toffee)
    Generally we're not used to asking them out, so when we have to we don't have a clue
    I'm not the best person in the world at asking, I guess the big thing is just to go for it, they will have the same response whatever you say, unless you want to suggest performing satanic rituals they will usually have yes or no in their heads already.
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    (Original post by sticky_toffee)
    I know this, the 'e' key is next to the 'r' on the keyboard though
    Riiiiiiight.
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    (Original post by sticky_toffee)
    How does this help?
    Honestly dont tell him she/he is right. U will onli turn him off u, us guys like to do the chasing, it will make u luk desperate
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    Just ask him out and what happens...happens!
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    (Original post by tsr10)
    Honestly dont tell him she/he is right. U will onli turn him off u, us guys like to do the chasing, it will make u luk desperate
    So i'm suppose to sit around for him to make the first move?
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    (Original post by sticky_toffee)
    Is that the way to a guy's heart?
    No threesomes is the way to a guy's heart.
 
 
 
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