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    Whenever we go out she'll always have her bum pinched and have men come dance with her etc. I *know* this sounds highly jealous and *****y but if I'm out with just her it ends up making me feel like a third wheel and I lose any self confidence I had when I first went out. I believe we're the same level of attractiveness, I just don't understand why the men all go to her


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    I just love how you complain about not getting that sort of attention, when theres tonnes of females on TSR who are ranting and raving about getting exactly that sort of attention in clubs themselves.

    The answers are really simple:

    - Wear less
    - Stand alone at the bar
    - Make eye contact


    OR you could.. you know... Maybe try actually approaching guys yourself?! Shocking stuff.
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    find a pole in the nightclub

    that is sure to raise a few eyebrows....
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    So does mine, just gotta deal with it innit.

    If you really do want that then act more confident, make yourself obvious or dress sluttier or something

    To be honest there are plentiful threads on here like "oh noes I keep getting my ass pinched by pervs in clubs", kind of ridiculous as the very same people would probably post something like this if they weren't getting any attention.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Whenever we go out she'll always have her bum pinched and have men come dance with her etc. I *know* this sounds highly jealous and *****y but if I'm out with just her it ends up making me feel like a third wheel and I lose any self confidence I had when I first went out. I believe we're the same level of attractiveness, I just don't understand why the men all go to her


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    Maybe you should just stop going out with her? :rofl:

    OP, I think it's not about how attractive you are. Reue is right, make eye contact, wear something nice, be confident and don't look desperate xD
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    maybe she knows she'll get all the attention so confidence is the key for her. i think men find that attractive... the way you stand, hold your head up high and as others have said eye contact.
 
 
 
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