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    Hi all.

    Im a twenty year old guy. I want to know from other guys: what makes you aroused ie erect? Is it

    * pics of naked women eg page 3 of sun
    * erotic sounds
    * erotic literature
    * pornographic videos
    * other_ please specify

    The reason why i am asking this is because i feel that i dont get a hard on now as easy as i did when i was like 15.

    when i was about 15-18, i got a hard on at the slightest thing, mainly looking at pics of women eg page 3 of sun. I feel now that ive been almost desensitised to these sort of images as ive got older and it takes more effort to become aroused.
    Does any other guys feel this way themselves?


    I feel now that im much less visually excited by women, i wonder is it normal with age (ie better self control) or is it a problem eg with hormones.

    Is simply looking at pics of women (eg page 3 of the sun) enough to make you hard? Or does it need something more eg videos, or close contact with a real woman?

    Thanks for any answers, i just wonder do other men work the same way.
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    1) only if i'm masturbating to them
    2) no
    3) i've read a few good pieces but videos are so much easier
    4) yes, even just looking no touching
    5) naked ladies in reality works well too

    I think i probably similar to how I have always done. I am 19 if that makes a difference.
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    1)no
    2)yes
    3)yes
    4)yes
    5) i've just lost my virginity and i think i didn't fully absorb that there was a hot naked girl next to me and i had trouble getting aroused. it was the strangest thing. has anyone else experienced this? i think it's because i'm so used to being "visually" stimulated by imagination and pornography that the real thing just felt very different
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    OP: this is called ageing. Most teenage boys have incredible amounts of testosterone going around their bodies. Almost anything produces an erection. Somewhere there's an animation of someone finding a diagram of one of the triangle theorems sexual. A few years on and you'll usually need direct touch.

    User 3: lots of men find it difficult to get an erection then. The "real thing" feeling very different is part of the reason. Throw in 'first time nerves' and it's amazing anyone manages
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    * pics of naked women eg page 3 of sun - no
    * erotic sounds - yes but only certain kinds
    * erotic literature - no, cyber doesn't count.
    * pornographic videos - duh :p:

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The reason why i am asking this is because i feel that i dont get a hard on now as easy as i did when i was like 15.

    when i was about 15-18, i got a hard on at the slightest thing, mainly looking at pics of women eg page 3 of sun. I feel now that ive been almost desensitised to these sort of images as ive got older and it takes more effort to become aroused.
    That's because you were a teen boy going through puberty. :lolwut: Sorry but I thought everyone, particularly the guys themselves, knew that at 12-15 or whatever, everything and everyone turned us on.
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    Another few qu i meant to ask....

    Would pics other than page3 make you go hard eg the pics in FHM / zoo / nuts mags?

    Do you find that orgasms and sensation isnt quite what it used to be ie comparing it to sensations you get when you first experience orgasms?

    Would vids of naked women posing/dancing erotically make you hard ( not hard pornography)?

    Thanks (im just interested to see if other guys think the same way as i do when they get older)
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    Would pics other than page3 make you go hard eg the pics in FHM / zoo / nuts mags? - depends who and the post

    Do you find that orgasms and sensation isnt quite what it used to be ie comparing it to sensations you get when you first experience orgasms? - didn't have sex then so wouldn't know. As for masturbating, it's the same.

    Would vids of naked women posing/dancing erotically make you hard ( not hard pornography)? - no

    As I said earlier though, at that age, the answer to almost any question you could ask is 'yes'.
 
 
 
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