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    I hate posting stuff like this but **** it here I go!...

    I am nearly 18 and never had a relationship before, don't get me wrong I've tried. The one and only girl I've ever loved enough to ask out turned me down (I'm quite shy when it comes to that sort of thing, mostly because I just feel unwanted in that department) I just wish I could be given a chance...

    Is it anything to worry about?
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    No, there are loads of posts on here from people older than you who have never had a bf/gf. Girls will turn you down, you won't always be their 'type'. Try to be yourself and don't shut down around girls and you'll get a good on soon enough
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    Stop touching yourself
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    Short answer, no.

    Longer answer:

    1. You are only 17, this is a great time to start getting to know yourself more, before you start sharing yourself with someone else.

    2. Work on yourself, get really fit and healthy, get good grades, get a job and earn some money, play some sport. This will make you a really well rounded person, you will get out, get more confidence and meet lots of new people.

    3. I know how you feel, but it doesnt mean you are unwated or never going to succeed and have a fulfilling relationsip. Its great that you asked someone out, and although you got rejected, there are 6.5 billion other people to meet!
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    theres plenty more fish in the sea...dry your eyes mate :music:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I hate posting stuff like this but **** it here I go!...

    I am nearly 18 and never had a relationship before, don't get me wrong I've tried. The one and only girl I've ever loved enough to ask out turned me down (I'm quite shy when it comes to that sort of thing, mostly because I just feel unwanted in that department) I just wish I could be given a chance...

    Is it anything to worry about?
    This is your problem, you loved a girl before you had even gone out?..

    Before you're ready for a relationship you need to be able to differentiate between love and infatuation.
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    nope
 
 
 
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