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    I'm a 19 year old female and I am repulsed by the idea of sex . I have tried vaginal and oral sex on numerous occasions and each time I have found it uncomftable, often very painful and disgusting. The thought of somebody inserting their body part into mine makes me shudder. I have never had any urge to have sex nor derived any pleasure from it. I have also never been turned on by kissing boys. Does anybody else feel the same way as me?
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    maybe you're not all that thrilled by the guy... i bet if you fell in love, you'd feel completely different. it seems to me that u dont enjoy sex for the sake of sex but its more to do with who you're with than what you're doing. if it makes u uncomfortable then dont do it. eventually you'll meet someone who'd you want to go there with and it wont be so disgusting
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    Have you ever had feeling towards women?
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    This is very bad for the evolution of mankind.
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    (Original post by _dudette_)
    maybe you're not all that thrilled by the guy... i bet if you fell in love, you'd feel completely different. it seems to me that u dont enjoy sex for the sake of sex but its more to do with who you're with than what you're doing. if it makes u uncomfortable then dont do it. eventually you'll meet someone who'd you want to go there with and it wont be so disgusting
    My girlfriend hated sex until she was with me. You need someone who will be patient and kind and considerate and willing to find out what you like.

    You will also need to find someone you find physically attractive.
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    You could be asexual. (I think that's right)
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    (Original post by Hoody555)
    This is very bad for the evolution of mankind.
    Why, you assume she has desirable characteristics which the gene pool would benefit from.
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    I'd recommend masturbating...once you've had your first orgasm it awakens your sexual appetite like no other. You probably aren't going to enjoy sex until you've explored your body yourself or with someone you trust, sex can be really really great if you put in the effort to get to know your body and what makes it tick, and it's worth it!
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    (Original post by tropical-twist3)
    I'd recommend masturbating...once you've had your first orgasm it awakens your sexual appetite like no other. You probably aren't going to enjoy sex until you've explored your body yourself or with someone you trust, sex can be really really great if you put in the effort to get to know your body and what makes it tick, and it's worth it!
    This is good advice. Do you want to like and enjoy sex OP? Do you not feel sexual desire?
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    Ok I LOVE sex haha, sorry for that. Now moving on...
    Start from basics.... do you get sexually attracted to people/are able to fantasise ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a 19 year old female and I am repulsed by the idea of sex . I have tried vaginal and oral sex on numerous occasions and each time I have found it uncomftable, often very painful and disgusting. The thought of somebody inserting their body part into mine makes me shudder. I have never had any urge to have sex nor derived any pleasure from it. I have also never been turned on by kissing boys. Does anybody else feel the same way as me?
    How many threads do you start per day, on average ?
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    (Original post by kiss_me_now9)
    You could be asexual. (I think that's right)
    Possibly, I'm attracted to women but the thought of doing anything beyond kissing repulsive.
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    I feel the same way...no biggie.
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    Anon - PM me if you want, I've helped people with this before. If you really want - use a duplicate account to do so...


    But anyway - do you have sexual desire in general?
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    (Original post by tropical-twist3)
    I'd recommend masturbating...once you've had your first orgasm it awakens your sexual appetite like no other. You probably aren't going to enjoy sex until you've explored your body yourself or with someone you trust, sex can be really really great if you put in the effort to get to know your body and what makes it tick, and it's worth it!
    Thanks for the advice but I have tried it numerous times and it doesn't work.
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    (Original post by EmiPark)
    Aren't you supposed to be anon? :eek3:
    Not anymore
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    (Original post by Philosoraptor)
    Anon - PM me if you want, I've helped people with this before. If you really want - use a duplicate account to do so...


    But anyway - do you have sexual desire in general?
    Thank you.
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    (Original post by mejxox)
    Not anymore
    Awwww...thought you made a mistake...no fun lol
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    You're asexual?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thank you.
    If you're not that other one and are being serious feel free...
 
 
 
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