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Reply 1
Possibly...actually, quite likely! :smile:
Reply 2
if he wants to know whether you have a bf then may be but then again it could be a passing comment.
Reply 3
Or taking the piss
Reply 4
probably.

How can you girls not tell if a guy fancies you. Surely the flirting gives it away? :confused:
Reply 5
Herleif Arkadios
probably.

How can you girls not tell if a guy fancies you. Surely the flirting gives it away? :confused:

but i tend to flirt with everyone :redface:
kriztinae
right when a guy asks do u have a boyfriend or for example i was on the fone and a guy friend asks was that your boyfriend, does it mean he fancies you?

is it for sure or could the guy just be making conversation? :redface:


he probably just wants to make you think he likes you, so that you make a move and humiliate yourself.

:smile:


Nah, he probably does...
Reply 7
It probably means he likes you a bit, or is considering you. Basically, I'd say it means you were definitely not a 'no-no', in his eyes. However, it could just be one of those weird; I-don't-want-to-go-out-with-you-but-I-get-jealous-when-other-people-go-out-with-you situations. Basically, he may not be after you himself, but may suddenly find out that he does want to be with you, when you're with another dude. This is not a good basis for a relationship.

However, it does sound likely that he might like you...do a bit more digging...or say no, it wasn't your boyfriend, but that, *sigh*, you'd really like one....
it's hard to say, it could be just a passing comment, it depends on the context, although it suggests if he said it randomly that he has been thinking about you as a potential. any other factors that point in this direction?
Reply 9
zhivago
It probably means he likes you a bit, or is considering you. Basically, I'd say it means you were definitely not a 'no-no', in his eyes. However, it could just be one of those weird; I-don't-want-to-go-out-with-you-but-I-get-jealous-when-other-people-go-out-with-you situations. Basically, he may not be after you himself, but may suddenly find out that he does want to be with you, when you're with another dude. This is not a good basis for a relationship.

However, it does sound likely that he might like you...do a bit more digging...or say no, it wasn't your boyfriend, but that, *sigh*, you'd really like one....

thing is i dont know if im even interested in him :redface:
jus stuck me as a bit of a shock when he asked and i dont wanna feel like im leading him on...

Lirael Abhorsen
it's hard to say, it could be just a passing comment, it depends on the context, although it suggests if he said it randomly that he has been thinking about you as a potential. any other factors that point in this direction?


well i dont really know him that well, was in my class at school for a year when i was in yr 8 and then he moved back to the states and has started comin here jus for a month or 2 for holidays during the summer. he works outside the bar i usually always go to and i always kiss him hello and speak to him for a bit buti dont really know him that well.
Reply 10
thing is i dont know if im even interested in him
jus stuck me as a bit of a shock when he asked and i dont wanna feel like im leading him on...


Well, you're an intelligent girl then. I've been in the friend/boyfriend blurred line, and it ain't good. Especially if you're not sure...because I've had a friend once who liked me, and it was really awkward, and I ended up despising him for ruining our great friendship. It's never been the same since. Then in another instance, I liked a male friend, but then that was retaliated - this left the other friend feeling sh*t.

Basically, tread carefully...he probably likes you.
Reply 11
zhivago
Well, you're an intelligent girl then. I've been in the friend/boyfriend blurred line, and it ain't good. Especially if you're not sure...because I've had a friend once who liked me, and it was really awkward, and I ended up despising him for ruining our great friendship. It's never been the same since. Then in another instance, I liked a male friend, but then that was retaliated - this left the other friend feeling sh*t.

Basically, tread carefully...he probably likes you.

we'l see, ill jus give him the same attention i give all the other peeps that work there. thanx :smile:
Reply 12
mmm have to say, generally if i like a girl id ask something like that..
but then again im known to be random so it can be one of my random questions...
well, wasnt i helpful?
id say 7 out of 10 times hes interested :smile:
Reply 13
sarforaz
mmm have to say, generally if i like a girl id ask something like that..
but then again im known to be random so it can be one of my random questions...
well, wasnt i helpful?
id say 7 out of 10 times hes interested :smile:

heh helpful enough :smile:
Reply 14
that doesnt anything. if i were you i wud dig abit further and be 100% sure rather than embarass yourself.
Reply 15
Doesn't necessarily mean he fancies you but its certainly heading in that direction.

He is learning your current situation and if you don't have a bf he will carry on trying to get with you, if you have a bf, he'll quit because blokes are like that. They are impatient and generally see women as something to use.(Teen/younger blokes).