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    There's a group of us who always go out together, sit in lectures together and live together (in a couple of different houses). I love all of them and by now know them pretty well. However there's one girl who I clash with and to me it's pretty obvious that we're only friends because of being in the same group. I just find her to be selfish and inconsiderate of other people's feelings, and we don't really have anything in common. What should I do? She is a major part of the group and I can't get away from it, and most of the others seem to like her. I don't want to spend much time with her but she's always with the others so I can't get away or I'd never see the ones I really get on with. What can I do?
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    be the bigger person and tolerate her. dont be two faced and pretend ur chums just like if its necessary, talk to her. if theres no need, just stay quiet and talk to ur other friends? good luck
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    There's a group of us who always go out together, sit in lectures together and live together (in a couple of different houses). I love all of them and by now know them pretty well. However there's one girl who I clash with and to me it's pretty obvious that we're only friends because of being in the same group. I just find her to be selfish and inconsiderate of other people's feelings, and we don't really have anything in common. What should I do? She is a major part of the group and I can't get away from it, and most of the others seem to like her. I don't want to spend much time with her but she's always with the others so I can't get away or I'd never see the ones I really get on with. What can I do?
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