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    Sometimes I wonder...

    And it makes me think: Why the hell am I thinking about it?
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    Because you have latent homosexual tendencies perhaps? If you actually think about it, try it? Who knows, you might just be in denial (like a lot of Egyptian Crocodiles).
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    Well I did for many years (it turned out I was, in the end). But I think everybody does in a certain sense. Don't shy away from thinking about it: whatever your sexuality and whatever you choose to identify as, it's good to be comfortable with it, and to have considered it, as with anything, is a valuable thing- whatever it is.
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    Yep, my boyfriend screwed me over pretty badly so I decided I hated men and thought "hey why don't I become a lesbian" and then two seconds later I was like "why the hell am I even thinking that!?"
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    I thought about it for four years. During those four years I was bisexual, and then realised I hadn't thought about women the entire time.
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    I think everyone does in a certain point in there life
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    I've wondered. Decided against it, I may fancy women like Eva Longoria but I'm not actually attracted to her.
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    Yeah, once or twice...
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    (Original post by CatatonicStupor)
    Because you have latent homosexual tendencies perhaps? If you actually think about it, try it? Who knows, you might just be in denial (like a lot of Egyptian Crocodiles).
    Ah! terrible! :P

    i have wondered before but i am deffo not
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    I think everyone does at some point :dontknow:
    I've wondered, but I like men too much
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    No, never. Why do people like to suggest that everybody does something or everybody is a little bit this or that?
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    Nope.
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    Wondered for a second but wasn't interested enough to reach a conclusion.
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    So after a little bit of experimenting...

    Looking up Gay/Lesbian porn videos. I can't say I'm drawn to either. =.='
    So I'm starting to think, I'm probably just not sexually attracted to people.

    Which makes me a little sad, since I so desperately want to experience love.
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    :teeth: Maybe.
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    Yup, as it turns out, I'm bi. I think most people go through a point where they question it though so it doesn't necessarily mean you are.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So after a little bit of experimenting...

    Looking up Gay/Lesbian porn videos. I can't say I'm drawn to either. =.='
    So I'm starting to think, I'm probably just not sexually attracted to people.

    Which makes me a little sad, since I so desperately want to experience love.
    Sex is neither a necessary nor sufficient condition on love. Asexual people are also a thing: they are pretty much fine I think. You can still love, romantically, etc, it's just maybe sex won't be a thing for you.
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    This one time in a history lesson, I got bored out of my mind... looked across the room, and thought to myself, "I could get with that guy."

    But then I came back to reality.
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    For about a year I was bi-curious, though I then began to realise that I wasn't bi as I didn't think of women in any particular way anymore (romantically) and I wasn't actually sexually attracted to any girls before that, I was just interested to see what it would be like .
 
 
 
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