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    Once i was a kid i remember saying to all the girls, ill marry my best friend who was a boy :lol:, i found him attrative, due to the fact that i found girls fecking annoying at that time, crazy girl fans...... but then i remember getting a boner when a friend brought into school this porn magazine, and i thought wow i like ass and tits :awesome:
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    yes, I'm gay.
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    I've wondered about it.
    But I love boys too much tbh.
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    yep, many times.
    but i think it's just a passing phase - for me.
    but what makes me most unsure is that straight porn does absolutly nothing for me, but lesbian porn is waaaay better. but i'm starting to acknowledge how fake it is so now nothing is don't it for me anymore!
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    No.
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    Yeap. I wouldn't be human if I didn't
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    Yeah Not sure where I stand at the moment to be honest.
    I often think 'shes very attractive' but i think that about men too.
    It's difficult, having never been in a proper relationship, I have no idea what I'm attracted to.
    I dont like porn either
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    Still wondering tbh.
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    I think I may be Bi, but I haven't had much chance to 'explore' heh heh
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    Yep, for years I thought I was a lesbian. Now I'm not sure whether I like both, just men or neither as I've never had the desire to have sex, masturbate or watch porn. I'm 19 and I feel I should know by now!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So after a little bit of experimenting...

    Looking up Gay/Lesbian porn videos. I can't say I'm drawn to either. =.='
    So I'm starting to think, I'm probably just not sexually attracted to people.

    Which makes me a little sad, since I so desperately want to experience love.
    You may just not like porn?
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    Female: have perhaps a little bit.

    But I don't really think of it that way. I see it as a sliding scale, where I'd place myself a lot closer to heterosexual. I guess it would depend on the individual - I imagine it is possible for me to fancy/ even fall in love with a girl... potentially

    I'm not afraid of that though :p:

    Besides it isn't happening any time soon because I am soo in love with my boyfriend :heart:
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    What if you're bi? I know I seriously thought I was a lesbian until I realised I was in fact bisexual!!
    Personally I think it's possible for anyone to fall for anyone, regardless of gender or what sexual orientaion you identify as...but that's just what every bisexual says
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    Sometimes. I haven't fancied a guy in ages and that's sad but whilst I have fancied guys before, I have never fancied a girl :p: So I'm straight. But I would like to meet a guy who I like again lol. It's been about 5 years since I last fancied a guy :p:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sometimes. I haven't fancied a guy in ages and that's sad but whilst I have fancied guys before, I have never fancied a girl :p: So I'm straight. But I would like to meet a guy who I like again lol. It's been about 5 years since I last fancied a guy :p:
    You know the saying...you're straight until you're not. It's nothing to worry about - sexual orientation is fluid, it's not a fixed thing. Whatever you are or are not, you're only young and it really doesn't matter.
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    (Original post by lilymae)
    You know the saying...you're straight until you're not. It's nothing to worry about - sexual orientation is fluid, it's not a fixed thing. Whatever you are or are not, you're only young and it really doesn't matter.
    Well I don't think I'm a lesbian in any way really :laugh:
    I'm in all-girls school, almost all my friends are girls, I have a sister but no brother, I have more female cousins, most of my teachers are female, etc, etc but I've never felt anything for girls apart from jealousy (damn I wish I had them legs) haha :laugh:
    I sorely miss the presence of boys though Switching from a mixed school to a single sex school is weird because you don't realise at first and then suddenly it hits you that you don't know how to interact with the opposite sex anymore :lol: I hope this is fixed soon :p:
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    Yes. But my way of curing this is getting drunk and seeing which sex I am attracted to more.
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    (Original post by CatatonicStupor)
    Because you have latent homosexual tendencies perhaps? If you actually think about it, try it? Who knows, you might just be in denial (like a lot of Egyptian Crocodiles).
    :woo: freaking hilarious
    seriously
    I giggled (:
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    I thought I was a lesbian because I always fancied girls, and never guys. Then someone told me that you're only a lesbian if your female and like girls (and I'm a guy), so apparantly I am straight.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So after a little bit of experimenting...

    Looking up Gay/Lesbian porn videos. I can't say I'm drawn to either. =.='
    So I'm starting to think, I'm probably just not sexually attracted to people.

    Which makes me a little sad, since I so desperately want to experience love.
    Porn alone is certainly not any kind of test of sexuality. I am gay (fairly sure anyway) and I was REALLY turned-off by gay porn the first time I saw it. I found it really repulsive (and I still do to a certain extent).

    Only a few years ago I was in serious doubt as to my sexuality, and it was a very confusing time. I thought that my confusion about my sexuality was natural and a process that happened to everyone, and that in a few years I'd snap out of this phase and be able to move on with my heterosexual life. It was just weird because until I was like 14 homosexuality as a concept seemed so distant and alien to me and I could never have imagined that I myself was in fact gay. I didn't even really believe it existed until I was 11 for god's sakes!

    Discovering your sexuality will be something you achieve. You may in fact be asexual, but that doesn't mean you can't have a good and fulfilling life.
 
 
 
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