I'm a fresher, in halls of residence and have just started my second semester.
Last semester, everything was okayish with my flatmates, we weren't best friends but we still talked in the kitchen and did the odd thing together, like go out/cinema/restaurant.
Since I've got back(been about a week) this has all changed, they have excluded me from absolutely everything, openly making plans without inviting me.
They were plannnig on going to the pub and i said id go too, then they just left without saying anything to me. They've been on a few nights out. However the worst thing is they have now decided to go on holiday together and have left me without an invite. I feel totally rejected.
- Thread Starter
- 18-01-2010 18:28
- 18-01-2010 18:30
Why don't you talk to one of them one-on-one and see if there's something you've said or done to make them want to exclude you like this. It may have been something unintentional, but it may be affecting the way they behave around you. Alternatively, maybe you (or they) have just changed.