Ok basically, I was seeing this boy who I thought was really nice for a couple of months and then he went to uni quite far away. I'm not the clingy type and he always seemed more into me. He went there and I suppose the whole absense makes the heart grow fonder thing applied, in the first month he was still keen and I planned on going to see him etc. All of a sudden he turned really vague and made me feel as if I was becoming clingy. Just generally was a bit of a ****. Before he came back he started being nicer again but I wasnt convinced then he was home and basically just wanted to see me when he wasn't with his mates but made out I was being OTT.
Sorry this is an essay, but I don't know whether I'm being unreasonable as we werent together properly, is he just doing the whole 'I'm at uni, I'm a lad, I want to **** girls?' Should I just go along with it and see people while he's away or sack him off completely?
...and how to stay positive