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    I know this sort of thread is dime a dozen here but here goes...

    Basically there's this girl I like (cliched start, I know). We get on pretty well, chat quite a bit in the lessons we share and I always get a smile and hello when she sees me round college. But...

    We're not what you would call "close" friends and I don't know that much about her outside of the stuff she mentions when we chat.

    I haven't really had a gf before so I want to know; Is it too early for me to ask her out? Should I get to know her some more first?

    Also, if I was to ask her out, what sort of stuff is good for a first date?
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    Maybe flirt a bit more, if she reacts well and you think your getting a bit closer from it, then go for it. Or you could try and get a mutual friend to hint or something if your not good at the flirting side of things, but I would go with the flirting Good luck!
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    Well she kinda knows I like her but it doesn't really feel awkward between us, I presume that's a positive... The problem is I'm summarily crap at flirting and noticing when someone's flirting back so I don,t have a clue really if she's interested in me.
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    Just tell her you like her.
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    Serenade her with 'total eclipse of the heart'. :coma:
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    (Original post by not-another-number)
    Serenade her with 'total eclipse of the heart'. :coma:

    "I REALLY NEED YOU TONIGHT!"
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    Why think so hard about it? Just go with the flow, "we talk about this and that" just ask her out if you like her, why think about it!?!?! Just got for it, if she says no then better luck next time.
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    Get to know her more first. Can't you go out in a group? then just ask her to go for lunch/dinner/cinema once you guys get talking properly. BUt I'd definately hang out properly with her first.
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    Get to know her, maybe suggest going out somewhere for a day?
 
 
 
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