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My boyfriend seems to have gone off sex watch

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    He has aids and doesn't want to infect you

    It's your own fault. He obviously got bored of having to make the first move all the time and your stubbornness reenforced that so he just stopped.

    The simple answer; hes getting it elsewhere or he's bored of you. I reckon the later.

    (Original post by Aquamarine.)
    I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I always thought our sex life was really good. But its been almost 3 months now and we haven't had sex.

    At the beginning of the drought I decided to be stubborn and not initiate because well he always used to and I just thought he would cave in eventually but after a few weeks I tried to initiate and whether or not he realised I always got rejected. When I asked him about it he said there was nothing wrong but that he is just bored of it. I do think that if there was an under lying problem he would just tell me because hes not one to beat about the bush.

    I just don't know what to do now, I feel like sex is on my mind 24 hours a day without any. Do I just get over myself and the fear of rejection and pounce on him to spice things up and excite him again or do I leave it until it just happens.. one day.. whenever that might be?

    Any advice really appreciated! Anyone ever had this happen before?
    Maybe the idea of sex doesn't appeal to him anymore because he associates it with boredom.. If you're doing the same things every time then you just need a bit of a change.. Considering you've been together 4 years it wouldn't surprise me.. Talk to him.
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