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Friends with Benifets/****** buddies ever become more? watch

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    Women obviously become a little more emotionally attached after getting happy naked.

    Should I risk engaging in buddy ******* knowing full well i am very likely to want more (i know i want more but also know i dont want a relationship yet)

    could my possible friend with benifet fall for me, and if so - how?

    im a female
    im hot and also more attractive than he
    i know his freinds fancy me
    i have a good sense of humour (i laugh at myself...)
    im uninhibited
    im not a slut
    i have really gross knees :/ (but he hasnt really got to see them properly yet)

    HELP
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    yes, but then it gets awkward if he doesn't feel the same way.

    /thread.
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    I have 3 atm, and certainly hope not all women get attached!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Women obviously become a little more emotionally attached after getting happy naked.
    You would have thought so but I know more guys that are more sensitive than women about sex and love.
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    sorry for the misspell


    he initially asked me out and i screwed it up by saying i didnt want anything serious!!

    but now im not sure what i want, i only want to fool around with him knowing that there MIGHT be potential for more. am i being a hypcrite?
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    basically. **** buddies work if you both just want sex, nothing more.
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    anyone have naything positive to say?

    ...say 'yes, men ca become attached to, his risk is as big as yours!'
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    You would have thought so but I know more guys that are more sensitive than women about sex and love.
    I don't know what it is but I absolutely love Helena Carter :sogood:
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    If there might be the potential for more, it'll be there with or without ******* him, to be blunt with you.
    Would you like a man to only want you because he knows how good you are in bed?

    Okay, totally pot calling the kettle black here, but when I slept with a friend for the first time, it was with the idea on my part that, even though I fancied him, nothing past sex would ever happen. Then, it did. But now I realise that it would have happened either way. And I'd have probably appreciated the sex more if the first time wasn't so blind drunk I can honestly not remember a lot of it :redface:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i have really gross knees :/
    that's a deal breaker right there.
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    (Original post by Roobsa)
    that's a deal breaker right there.
    gee thanks, im tempted to post some help on TSR for them, but im not sure how it will be donne anonymously whilst linking ot my photobucket for pics.

    anyhooo - thank you for your insight
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    (Original post by ipulledhermione)
    gee thanks, im tempted to post some help on TSR for them, but im not sure how it will be donne anonymously whilst linking ot my photobucket for pics.

    anyhooo - thank you for your insight
    anon fail? :p:
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    (Original post by ipulledhermione)
    gee thanks, im tempted to post some help on TSR for them, but im not sure how it will be donne anonymously whilst linking ot my photobucket for pics.

    anyhooo - thank you for your insight
    Anon fail :p:
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    (Original post by Roobsa)
    anon fail? :p:

    nawww funkinoodle!

    how do i fix this?

    quick before someone sees, i dont want them to know about the KNEE!

    :eek3: :eek3: :eek3: :eek3: :eek3:
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    (Original post by ipulledhermione)
    nawww funkinoodle!

    how do i fix this?

    quick before someone sees, i dont want them to know about the KNEE!

    :eek3: :eek3: :eek3: :eek3: :eek3:
    ha! don't worry. looking at your profile picture, you're very attractive. he'd be a fool not to fall for you!

    also, i don't know about the anon thing :confused: sorry.
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    Ipulledhermione Is Faking Being Me


    Ignore Her.
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    (Original post by Roobsa)
    ha! don't worry. looking at your profile picture, you're very attractive. he'd be a fool not to fall for you!

    also, i don't know about the anon thing :confused: sorry.
    i fixed it


    nahh i think its broken beyond repare, i shouldnt have said that i didnt want something when i myself didnt know what i wanted.

    Plus why should I expect him to want more of me, when I probably wont want him/cant imagine being with him any other way than for funsies.

    xxxxx
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    (Original post by fox_the_fix)
    I have 3 atm, and certainly hope not all women get attached!
    did you get any free chlamydia with the x3 selection box?
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    Right, Im going to see beyond the fact that you seem really arrogant and answer you.

    In my experience, for that kind of a relationship to work, both must just be interested in sex, and nothing more. If this changes, they need to be close enough, honest and mature enough to take it up in a decent way, rather to hope for something else and be silently heartbroken.

    Getting in his pants is not the first move you want to make if you want a relationship. How would you feel if he fooled around with other girls?
    I think you have to be pretty clear on what you want, and perhaps even "rules", as in if you dont want him to be with anyone else, tell the other if they get jealous, get feelings etc.
    It can really quickly get messy..
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    I would do it but if the guy (or you) start getting feelings cut it off if that is not what you want. make sure you both have an understanding about how it is going to work.
 
 
 
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