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    So i met a guy at uni, we get on really well, i thought i may like him more than a friend, so well we are now sort of acting as though we are a couple, although he has not asked me out a such and we dont call each other our boyrfriend/girlfriend.
    But recently ive decided i just want to be friends, however im pretty sure he wants more. I may not have always shown him i want to just be friends and may have led him on for the wrong reasons. I liked having someone close and liked the fact someone liked me, but have now come to terms this is not a good idea and the sooner i tell him the less he will get hurt.
    But i dont know how to bring it up? Sometimes iam mean to him and I dont know why, i think its because deep down i want him to not like to me then its easier for him to not like me like that.
    But hes a close friend, and i never want to loose that. How can i make sure we stay good friends and dont hurt his feelings?
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    Get a boyfriend, introduce this guy to your boyfriend and say 'this is my boyfriend x, and x this is my friend y'.
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    You're gona have to say no at some point and hurt his feelings. You're better off doing it sooner rather than later. Just tell him how you feel.
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    Become an STD infested hooker?
 
 
 
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