We were friends and behaved exactly as we did when we were in a relationship, and it felt fine, but now we're back together everything feels more stressful, and for some reason I end up feeling used... Help please?
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When we're in a relationship I feel used. watch
- 20-01-2010 19:42
- 20-01-2010 19:49
And I do still want to be with him.
- 20-01-2010 20:26
I feel the same, often.
When my boyfriend and I were apart last summer, he was SO nice to me, and he texted me way more than usual and asked me to meet up and generally made much more effort than usual. When we got back together, he was nice for a bit, and is still sometimes nice, but he doesn't make any effort anymore really. I don't know why this is but it sucks.
- 20-01-2010 20:28
stop being so needy
- 20-01-2010 20:34
I suppose it's because on some level I'm noy my own sperate entity anymore, so he can make me feel foolish. It's like I'm more sensitive to anything he says or does that he could mean in a bad way.