5 girls on my course planned to go on a trip as we havent done anything together for a long time.
basically we where going to go for 4 to 5 days, the week after valentines weekend and obv with the 5 of us.
now some guys have been invited that i dont know partically. the others get on with them very well and i dont know them that much.
im the kinda person though that takes a while to get to know someone. im quiet and not that chatty. now i dont really want to go becoz of this i rather go with people i know well. is this a good reason to say why i dont wanna go ??? i dont want to seem like im making a fuss !!
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- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2010 16:51
- 21-01-2010 16:53
My balls dropped.
Works everytime, if it doesn't, then quickly eat some pink stars and then you'll start talking like a man and lifting your body weight, it's win-win baby.
Note: Do not try this at home.
- 21-01-2010 16:55
If you don't totally feel comfortable, tell your mates. I'm sure they'll understand and they might reassure that they will ensure you're not left out or will compromise so you're not 'forced' to be with people you don't want to stay with.
Although it will give you a chance to get to know your friend's friends and you may up having a good time!
- 21-01-2010 16:57
I say throw yourself out of your comfort zone, go, and perhaps make some new friends. The 4 other girls you like and know will still be there, so just talk to them and act as comfortably around everyone there as you would do normally. You'll probably really enjoy it OP, don't worry so much - would you want to miss out on the experience because you feel a little shy? I'm not being patronising, as I'm similar to you and barely spoke to people on my own til secondary school, I was so shy. It's only been through forcing myself OUT of my comfort zone that I've come out of my shell and now have relatively good social skills. New situations and people can be intimidating or scary, but just think that you can have a good day with the 4 girls you like, and possibly make some new friends
- 21-01-2010 17:17
Say you haven't got enough money.
- 21-01-2010 17:21
- 21-01-2010 17:25
you've been offered free sex????
- 21-01-2010 17:27
There is no good reason not to go. A lack of confidence socially is not a good reason, go, you will get to know them, and 1. there will be 4 people there you do know, and 2. its a great chance to make some new friends, and have some fun.